I had planned on going to MAC last night dressed. Unfortunately got out of work late so decided just to get dressed and hit the mall. My makeup didn't please me as it usually does. Could not make it right but it was ok. Out the door in a red mockneck sweater, jeans, my new wool pea coat and sensible burgundy pumps. Well went into Bon Ton. I was nervous, it was quiet except for the couple who spotted me. I hear hey is that... yea! its a guy! Across the womans section! Just as loud, no one around but me but I shot like a scared rabbit. I left and went to dress barn to relax as Dana. I know the girls and they always are so sweet to me. She said who cares what people think, be YOU! YEA!!! So back to Bon Ton! Walked with a new attitude past a ton of people and no one noticed. I asked a SA about using a coupon and no reaction at all.
SO its not all makeup clothes etc... Its your attitude girls! When relaxed, even the guys I passed didn't even look twice. I think I am getting it! I still get nervous but have to just swallow and RELAX!