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    Fighting with the Girl Within

    I've fought her!

    I'vr denined her!

    But yet each morning?

    There she is on my front porch?

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    Hi. Dana..

    Why. oh why . have you . fought ..denined .. her when she is your best friend .
    As you sit out there what do you see .

    when the sun is shining she is beatifull . when it s wet & cold . so is she .

    so look after her . because she is ...
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    you..
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    ...noeleena...

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    Dana, don't you ralize that you can never win a fight against a girl?

    Accept her. Embrace her. Love her. Because if you don't, who will?
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    Dana I know what you are going through. The inner girl will always be there, it will survive anything and everything and come back only stronger with each attempt to fight her. As others have said embrace and accept her.
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    Somebody asked me awhile back why I wanted to transition, don't you want a girlfriend or wife? I said to myself yes but I have a love for the girl I am and for now it is enough. Love her and take care of her for she will be there long after others have fled.

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    I love the girl within and at times I love the male that I am. However I could never give up the female inside me. I feel as time goes on she becomes more dominant and wants to be out more often. You can't fight it. It will always be there.

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    I see no need, absolutely no need to fight the girl within. Subdue her never, Let her live always. If she wants to come around embrace her, (as long as it doesn't harm your family,) Always be careful and loving of her. She is you and you are her the two of you are one.

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    I guess it is "natural" for males and females to battle. I battle, but then it is better when the battle is over, because with that comes a balance. Alana, comes out and plays, then the male side feels better.

    With me, it is ironic, when I am female for awhile, it makes me feel more male when Alana is put away. The feminine strengthens the masculine.

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    My goodness, Teri!

    Quote Originally Posted by Teri Jean View Post
    Somebody asked me awhile back why I wanted to transition, don't you want a girlfriend or wife? I said to myself yes but I have a love for the girl I am and for now it is enough. Love her and take care of her for she will be there long after others have fled.
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    Open the door and invite her in, appologize and make up.

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    Stop fighting with her. Didn't you know that the girl inside of you is smarter the the man outside. Let the girl out so others can see how smart you are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dana View Post
    I've fought her!
    I did that for too many decades

    Quote Originally Posted by Dana View Post
    I've denied her!
    When I did that, it spoiled any chance of a meaningful relationship and made me question who I was

    Quote Originally Posted by Dana View Post
    But yet each morning?

    There she is on my front porch?
    I won't let Rianna appear on my front porch each morning - I let her in where she belongs - as an important part of me.
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    so let her in....or take her out shopping
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    Fighting with the Girl Within

    no need to fight it the girl withen is going to win out,

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    I spent the last four years fighting her

    Then one morning I woke up and just thought......"Why?"

    We don't only destroy ourselves with our fight within ourselves, we also destroy those closest to us with our constant struggle for self acceptance.

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    Just as the other girls said, don't fight her/embrace her!! or as Mary Ann says TAKE HER SHOPPING!

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    Fighting her can prove to be very costly

    You have to come to a compromise over her at the very least
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    Life would be much simpler without this need! We all say that we accept our girl side, yet most of us (even those of us that go out and about) still hide it from friends, family, workmates and neighbors. If we were truly comfortable with ourselves that would not be the case.
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    most uf us have had the same feelings at one time or another thats why its can be so darned expensive but i learned its part of me and it wont leave so im happy with both sides its a balance to bad im cant do it anytime i want too like one week fem the next maybe and switch back and forth that would be sooooooo fun

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    Give into that girl within and let her take over, it's a fight I long ago gave up on and have not regretting it since.

    Amanda

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