Hi ladies. I'm a newly-enrolled member to this site, but a looong time girl! I know there are so many posts on the topic, but I'm getting ready to come out to my fiance. We've been together 4.5 years, and got engaged this past June. We are in the process of finding a house.
I've gotten advice from many girls who say, 'come out!' And that's what I want to do. I am afraid, and definitely don't want to lose her. She has told me in the past that as long as I don't cheat on her, she won't leave me/and we can work through things. Of course, the problem I see is: this is something she can't even envision me being!
I have taken many pictures, gone out to a few bars/clubs with girls, and done a heck of a lot of shopping. I'm assuming that I should NOT tell her this part right away?
Any advice on the best way to ease into the topic?
Thanks!
~Kari