Be Careful What You Wish For

**Phyliss** · 12-09-2009, 04:21 AM

You just might get it.
How many of us have said:
1. I wish I could dress at home
2. I wish I could apply my makeup in the bathroom
3. I wish I could hang my dresses in my closet
4. I wish I could do the house work while dressed
5. I wish I could .....

The list goes forever

My wish was granted yesterday. 38 years, 3 months, 3 weeks, and 4 days of marriage .... over. My wife died.

Dressing means nothing compared to having somebody to share my life with. I already miss seeing her roll her eyes at me when I stop in the store and admire a cute dress on display
See my post in the Milestones forum

**Katelyn** · 12-09-2009, 04:27 AM

I'm very sorry to hear that hon. My prayers go out to you.

**Joanne f** · 12-09-2009, 04:32 AM

Phyliss,
i am very sorry to hear your sad news and send you my sympathy and condolences.

**DaisyG** · 12-09-2009, 04:37 AM

Phylliss,

I'm so very sorry to learn of your wife's passing. I understand what you're going thru. Only 6 months ago - - it seems like just yesterday, yet it seems an eternity, my wife passed on. We had 39 years, 8 months and one week together, and had been planning to celebrate our Big 40th.

The wishes you recall are all so familiar, and all so true.

Please accept my sincerest sympathy,

Hugs!

Daisy

**Samantha Girl** · 12-09-2009, 04:40 AM

Oh Phylis I am so sorry about your wife passing away

I hope you receive all the love and support you need during this time. Gosh, 38 years, that is amazing, I'm so sorry sweety.

EDIT: Daisy I am sorry for your loss as well

I hope things get better for you, I can't imagine the pain you continue going through.

**Jillt** · 12-09-2009, 04:41 AM

So sorry. my thoughs and prayers are with you

**MissKara** · 12-09-2009, 05:05 AM

Ohhh, I am sooo sorry to hear that Phylliss

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.

Love,
Miss Kara

**jetta** · 12-09-2009, 05:13 AM

My heart goes out to you.....so very sorry for your loss. I'm recently divorced after 27 years and I feel lost at times, I can only imagine your loss. You are in my prayers.

**noeleena** · 12-09-2009, 05:19 AM

Hi. Phylliss.

Oh i m so sorry that you r. s o. has left you .
my thoughts are there for you .
hugs .........

the wish list .
that s a part of who i am . so no wish s needed .

may be one .that Jos & i stay living with each other .

...noeleena...

**Jenny Gurl** · 12-09-2009, 05:26 AM

I am sorry for your loss. Prayers go out to you and the loved ones around her. It is so early in the grieving process, but I would like to give you a link to a support group web site where people with similar problems can get together like we do here. The link is directly to widows and widowers, but you can look up anything you can think of there. Again I am sorry for your loss.

http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Widow.../support-group

**Jeanna** · 12-09-2009, 05:37 AM

I'm very sorry to hear about your loss.
Jeanna

**Jonianne** · 12-09-2009, 05:37 AM

I'm sorry for your loss, Phyliss. After 38 years of a life together, I'm sure the grief will be overwhelming at times, but know she will always be with you in your heart. Focus on all the wonderful memories, even when she would roll her eyes at you!

**dominique** · 12-09-2009, 05:40 AM

Sorry to hear about your loss. May she rest in peace.

**Maddie** · 12-09-2009, 05:52 AM

Words can not express.......May god hold you in his hands and guide you

Maddie

**DAVIDA** · 12-09-2009, 06:15 AM

Phyliss, I am so sorry for your loss.

Daisy, I am sorry for your loss too.

I can't even imagine what the two of you are going through.
I am a mess just thinking about this.
I don't know what I could do, but if you want to talk, PM me and I will give you my number.

**crossdrezzer1** · 12-09-2009, 06:18 AM

Ohhhhh,,,,, babe,,,, I am sooooo sorry for your loss,,, I wish you well thru this very hard time...

**Presh GG** · 12-09-2009, 06:18 AM

Dear Phyliss,

38 years of love and laughter.
Please accept our sincere condolances on your Dear wifes passing.

Hold in your heart the knowledge you loved and were loved.

Peace,

spring and Tea

**Raychel** · 12-09-2009, 06:31 AM

I am sorry for your loss, sounds so generic, I wish I could think of something more to say that would help. But right now I am totally at a loss for words.

The loss of a loved one is one of the hardest things in your life. I pray that she did not suffer in her passing, and pray that you have family and good friends to assist you in your time of griefing.

**Starling** · 12-09-2009, 06:43 AM

Dear Phyliss, my deepest condolences on your loss.

Love,
Lallie

**PetiteDuality** · 12-09-2009, 06:45 AM

I'm really sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine myself without my wife.

But please honey, don't blame your wishes for it. It's natural law, and what you wished for has nothing to do with what happened.

You'll be in my prayers.

**Suzie S.** · 12-09-2009, 06:47 AM

Phyliss, and Daisy, I'm so sorry for the loss of your wives.

Like the others have said, it's difficult finding words to comfort you. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. I sincerely believe they are in a better place, free of pain and suffering, where they can live on forever in your hearts.

We are all here for you if you need us.

**erickka** · 12-09-2009, 07:08 AM

My thoughts and prayers are with you. My condolences on your loss.

**RobynB** · 12-09-2009, 07:10 AM

I'm sorry for your loss. I know you will miss her.

**linnea** · 12-09-2009, 07:14 AM

I'm so sad for you. I know how I would feel in your situation--a great sense of loss and an emptiness. You have my heartfelt sympathy.

**robyn1114** · 12-09-2009, 07:21 AM

I'm so very sorry for your loss, please feel free to cry on my virtual shoulder

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