Hi Everyone,

Please help me with my small dilemma.

When my husband and I go out and she is dressed and totally in girl mode, I still need to introduce her to people we run into. So normally i just say " this is my husband ,Tea"
It doesn't bother Tea,but there must be a better word to call her. I know I could just say "this is Tea" and leave it at that,but she is my husband, has been for over 30 years and I'm proud she's my husband.
Other than husband I use all the proper pronouns.

So please put yourself in my place, Then put yourself in Tea's place.
Can you help me with a better introduction?

Thank You,
Presh GG