I like women the most, but acknowledge that I am a sucker for alpha males (no pun) intended.
I like women the most, but acknowledge that I am a sucker for alpha males (no pun) intended.
I agree, although i've been with a cuppla guys over the years, but never again will I do it. Theres nothing sexy or gorgous about a man at all, hairy chests, legs, moustaches, beards,......yuck!!!!Originally Posted by Laura_Stephens
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]I love my gorgous flowing evening and ball gowns. I love swishing in them, and feeling how beautiful and shimmering they are. I love to feel like a princess. I love to be elegant, feminine and ladylike.
Maybe you were fishing in the wrong pools? There are plenty of attractive, well-groomed guys out there, some of them even know how to talk wine lists intelligently with a sommelier, can tie a windsor knot, and don't drive 1978 Ford F-150 extended cabs with three coon hounds in the rear seat. And, a limited number are actually intelligent and sensitive.
very interesting threat, so many different feelings, thoughts and expectations.
To be, women are the best that we have on this planet. Whenever I see a beautiful woman, I think how is that possible, being so perfect and beautiful.
I'm only into women, if en femme, my dream is to spend time with a GG to do whatever we do when we go out, that includes everything. I guess I would have to consider myself being lesbian when dressed.
But, I do have some fantasies sometimes about going out with a man. My experiences with men are very limited. I've been out to so many places that of course men were attracted to me and they showed. However it made me feel very uncomfortable. The only exception is when ever I talked to men, it was fine, if we just talked and they didn't approach me with words such as "you are so beautiful" ....
I stay with women.
Do yu think the challanges are the same?
I must add to my previous thread that when dressed fem and attracted very much to men and they to me and we have time to spend together. Well, after getting to know one another and perhaps wanting to take our relationship to another level we most often start with kissing. I've always been told that I'm a good kisser by women and now get the same compliment by men I've been with. However, I've found the men I've been with much more passionate when kissing me than the women and this has become so much more desirable for me to be kissed by a man rather than a women because of this passion.
The thought has ran through my mind when I dress. But it will never happen.
Angie
Yes, it is nice to be seen as alluring to men - but beyond that, the thought of physical intimacy is not pleasant.
This thread has been going on for a long time, long enough for our thoughts to have evolved. Looking back, I guess I have evolved in that it seems to me that guys could be ok in theory, but in practice I can't see the attraction!
I guess I'm just a committed trans-lesbian. Yup..that's it!
tina
Too true. But I find it difficult to come to terms with my sexuality while I am trying to come to terms with my gender!
As for my sexuality: I'm bisexual, my wife is bisexual. We're in family mode right now, so we don't act on anything (not enough time or energy for another relationship). But I have been with men, she has been with women, and in general we both prefer the other sex.
Still, when your dressed to the nines with smooth stockings, a short skirt, blouse, heels, panties, bra and in all ways looking like a woman, it feels kind of natural, for me at least, to think of possibly having a sexual encounter with a man. Faceless man, as someone else wittily pointed out.
If you're not the slightest bit attracted to men when in drab then it's pointless forcing yourself to in femme mode.
And a faceless man is wasted if you don't like what's in his pants!
I think men are hot either way
iam a straight guy an i love talking an dating cd
Dressed in heels or brogues, Bettie Drapers new husband on Mad Men is someone I find wickedly attractive. In general when I'm dressed as one of them I find men attractive but not in an erotic way. But when dressed like a woman I stop thinking about women and its exclusively men and their special parts that I'm thinking about.
That's how I felt for ages Janice but now I fancy men all the time
Maybe I'm going w-a-a-a-a-ay out on a limb here, but do we need a separate section on the forum for those of us who either date guys or fantasize about dating guys?
The mods at CD.com edit posts for overly sexual content and for general inappropriateness as outlined by the rules, not for sexual or gender preferences. If you feel uncomfortable reading the posts in this thread, you could bypass it.
If you were to exclude all the members of CD.com who've ever thought about experiencing sex with men from posting in the general forums, you'd have precious few members left, IMO. I rather suspect that questioning one's sexuality is a fairly common part of gender exploration.
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Reine
[SIZE=4]It's not the reason I crossdress (to attract men), but my desire and attraction to men increases when I am dressed. I have been with the same man when I was dressed as a woman and dressed as a man. Both were wonderful but certainly different. When dressed as a woman it was like an out of body experience and his touches were more gentle and seducing. When not dressed as a woman, we were like two equals enjoying each other. I guess that's it: as a woman I was submissive and as a man I was equal. So much for the equal rights of women! But I loved it anyway. [/SIZE]
I am of two polar sexual people. I love women, the way they move, the way they smell, the way they're shaped and sometimes I want to be them, as them. When I'm dressed I want a man to sex me. I don't want his love, I want his libido. I could not have sex with a man if I was not dressed. I've only loved a woman in my chest, and cannot even begin to image that for a man.
As time goes on, I OFTEN fantasize about being with men, yet I'm not at all attracted to them. I thought I was alone in this regard until I "spoke" with another TV who told me that the only thing stopping her from dating a man was she could never visualize a man she could be attracted to, even in her fantasies, so the men are all faceless.
But I think I'd love to be taken out on a date with a man, the kind of date where I'd get to be dolled up very classy and sexy: heels, hose, "night" makeup, nails... Being escorted into a guy's car and heading off into the night together would be a big thrill. I'd love to be treated like a lady and have him pay for everything...
And, yes, I DO fantasize about what "it" would be like with a man, but am 99.99999% sure I'd never do it, so I have no guilt about it.
Even though it looks dubious from my avatar, I don't dress femme most of the time. I am very attracted to genuine and sweet CD/TG/ TS individuals. I am wondering how many accomplished, confident TGs are willing to accept attention from a straight appearing/acting man who only wants to treat them as a woman should be but not necessarily delving into physical sex. Only to first base so to speak.
It seems so many posters are heading into the issue of sexual activity from the git go or the expectation of it. I am the only one that has no problem with a purely platonic relationship with respect due and given to both individuals just as thought they were a GG and a GM in the traditional sense?
For me personally I have never thought or fantasized about being with a man. I have never felt even the least bit attracted to men. I am all for women. We I dress I do fantasize about lesbians... So personally I just like girls all the way around.
But this is an interesting topic, I never really think about this aspect of crossdressing as it doesn't occur in my mind. I guess it does make sense for most guys to have thought about this stuff...
I guess I'm just weird...
I think of myself as a full-time man no matter how I am dressed or what makeup I would wear. I am also a heterosexual. So the idea of my dating a man would really be nauseating to me. So if I went out with a woman - e.g., my wife, I would be doing so as a normal heterosexual man and not a lesbian even though I might look like a woman.
I guess I am one of the few members of this forum who does not identify himself/herself at anytime as a woman.
John (Legal name)
Preferred pronouns: he, his, him
I'm married. But I don't think I would ever have dated a man while en femme. I have no physical attraction to men. I used to online chat a lot, and have had some very nice conversations with men who said they like the way I make up and dress. (Not all of them, though. There was weirdo filtering to be done, at least as best I could). Anyway, I found myself having a strange kind of psychological attraction to those men who were attracted to me. And I did go through a lot of fantasizing about dating. I think it was all about positive feedback for my makeup/dressup activities, trying to look as pretty and glamorous and sexy as I could, getting recognized, and responding to the attention.
Barbara petty well summed it up - weak in the knees. When I am dressed, I really like men. When I am not, I like women.
In my personal life in overall do not find myself attracted to men. I have had several sexual dreams where I am with a man and for the most part they revolve around me performing orally on the faceless man involved. I've never told anyone about this before but I glad to see many of you on her find themselves attracted to women, but have the same faceless penis fantasies i do.
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