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    Silver Member Amy Hepker's Avatar
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    Not at All, grosses me out. No how, no way.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dorisnycd View Post
    have been dating men as a girl for years and love it!
    No surprise there, you look great! I'd ask you out too
    Life's too short to not do the things that make you happy.

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    I have been dating men for longer than I can remember and the same goes for woman too while in female mode and I am as naughty as they come too.
    SRS January 27

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    Yes Yes Yes ....guys are fun to be with....spending the night ...dinner....breakfast yep its all fun to be with the right man.
    I am who I am...I am very happy with who I am! I am transgender! Time for others to deal with it or get out of my way!

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    Probably more have thought about it or fantasized about it then actually have gone out with a guy. I would be tempted when dressed to see if the fantasies equal the real experience.

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    OMG I am so Lesbian it isn't even funny!
    The only man I would ever want to be with is myself. I have fantasized about a magical encounter with me dressed as a woman being with me as a man. Still homosexual I know, but it seems to interest me.

    And if I ever had SRS, I would only be with women.
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    i think it all comes down to being with the right person for yourself, since we are all different in our own ways!

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    Being omnisexual, I think it's all in the mind.

    When I'm feeling Girly, I like being with the right man, but not just any man. If an interesting, nice, intelligent man takes an interest in me as a person, and not just as a sexual curiosity, then if the relationship flows towards intimate relations, then I will go with the flow.

    When I'm feeling Manly, I date women, and the same general ground rules about intimate relations apply.

    I've had some bad "One Night Stands" both Dressed and in Drab, and have had some wonderful romantic affairs, too. When we are dealing with Human Beings generalizations are very dangerous.

    I think most male aversion to having sex with another male is purely due to societal taboos, and being carefully taught to be homophobic when young. I never date men as a Man, although I've been attracted on occasion, and I'm sure it's because of psychological overlay dating back for decades. The Greek Hoplites were rife with homosexuality, and they were as brave as warriors as any culture which has ever existed, and even a Chuck Norris movie had a line in it where he said something to the effect that, "The bravest man I ever met was a homosexual."

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    im attracted to men and women. I've never been in a relation with a man, but would definately welcome the opportunity with the right person.

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    I am bisexual. I like men but prefer women. I am so lucky to have a supportive SO GG. She naired my legs. she wants to have girls nights in with me. I feel blessed! she is accepting, but when she wants her "man", then she gets her "man",. everything in moderation.
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    I'm a girl stuck in a man's body!!!!

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    This is a very good question, which I think most of us have pondered. The friend I am out to recently asked me if I was Bi and at the time I said no. I have never done anything with a guy (other than playing doctor as a little kid!). I love women, but have started to wonder about what it would be like to be with a man. I think I would consider being dressed in a threesome with a GG and a guy, but I would have to trust both of them.

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    Most men are jerks.They just want to get into your panties and I don'tmean wear them! Ha! Ha! Iguess I'm a CD that just likes girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BARBARA_MELENDEZ View Post
    I love men and can't live without them...I get weak on my knees when I see a strong masculine guy
    Right there with you girlfriend

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    well, I have a crush on my best friend who's in another state.
    I absolutely love him. i feel happy, comfortable and safe around him and he is the only person i actually talk to the most from all of my other friends. so i guess that would make it up that i like men. here is the thing.

    what attracts me about men the most is if i feel like i can trust him and if he would accept me for who i am and respect my individuality. after all its really all about chemistry.
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    I have my share of fantasies as many here do. I have not only a perfect dream woman inside my head but a perfect dream man too.
    There have been rare occasions when I found myself attracted to a real man and wondered what it would be like to be with him.
    To actually do it, the situation would have to be perfect and nothing preplanned.
    Guess I'll be sticking to the wife.
    I'll dance with who brung me and let the dream man take me every once in awhile.

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    I don't think about it, I do!

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    I do, I wanna date a guy so bad............

    All my life my fantasies involved dressing as a woman and being accepted in a group as one of them. About the time I turned 40, something changed inside me. I started having dreams about being dressed as a woman and attracting a man. It surprised me so much I sought out a gay friend from high school and told him, "I need to talk to you right away about something really important." Without even knowing what I was going to talk about, he wrote back, "So how long have you thought you were gay?" As he explained, though, the main problem for us is that most gay guys want to be around a man that looks like a man -- not one that looks like a woman. Someone on here once said that crossdressers are almost the 'lepers' of the whole sexual spectrum, as we just don't seem to fit in anywhere. Unfortunately, that is often true.

    Since we're putting lables on ourselves today, I guess I'm 'heteroflexible'. Where do I find a nice guy to date? Someone that wants to be friends first? I'm in Northern Indiana and there's just nothing here for us. Any suggestions?

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    Quote Originally Posted by KellyWannabe View Post
    How many of us think about being with a guy while crossdressing?

    I know I do! I wanna be a naughty girl!
    Ditto here, with one major "modification"...
    My attraction is specific to passable TGs only. No attraction at all to "straight" guys, or anyone "hairy"...lol

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    I have dated a few guys, but it's not really what I prefer. It is nice to have a man fuss over you and treat you like a lady. That part I really loved. And I think I'd enjoy being with another girl like me.

    The first man I went out with I met in a club, and he looked like Cary Grant dressed in a nice Brooks Brother's suit. He owned his own business, and was very successful. He treated me like a lady the whole time. I felt like a young girl out on her first date. The first kiss was extraordinary, very gentle and loving. All in all, a very nice experience, and I even enjoyed the love making later on.

    Karen
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    Lucky to be a girl 95.33% of the time

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    Ill be honest I have dated a few men special friends wrong yes I know but the odd thing its was beyond exciting and too be honest I want more. nothing in mainy yrs have even came close to this experience.I now wonder were these emotions hidden inside am I bi sexual or possibly gay and never allowed myself to think deeply about. I wonder about this everyday I am married and over the yrs our marriage has taken some severe hits this all plays into my feelings thanks Missy

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    Well... So far, I have only been with a TS and I was not en femme. I would much rather meet a "special girl" while she was en femme and I was en drab. Oh the things I would like to try! I rarely think about being with another guy while en drab but I have. Just haven't acted on these thoughts... Yet!

    Denver has a lot of gorgeous girls! Hopefully I get the nerve to go out on a date with one.

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    I coudln't date a man, not even a trans-man. I could date trans-women, but I like women in general even as a CD.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laura_Stephens View Post
    I am still trying to figure out what in h3ll women find attractive about men!
    It's interesting you say that, because I constantly ask myself the same question!!

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    Love is about people, not genitals

    Quote Originally Posted by PantyhoseNPumps View Post
    As far as I am concerned, I have never, ever looked at a man in an attractive way. I have always been the biggest fan of the female form, and aside from a one night stand (experimental) a few years back, with another "girl", I've never even thought of being with a man. However, all my life, I have felt so all alone, I've always thought that there was no one out there how could ever truly love a girl like me, I've always figured that one day, I would die alone, never having experienced unconditional love, someone who would love me, for Who I Truly Am. Recently, I met someone, who is (like me) not gay, but who we both share a mutual and genuine care for eachother, and it does puzzle me quite a bit. He really is a wonderful and sweet guy, hard working single parent of an adorable little daughter who he just cherishes. This, among other things, make me so attracted to him! He has made me sooo happy, for the first time in 20 years, I have those little butterflies in my stomach, when I think of someone..you probably know what that means! I think that at this point in my life, while I have no interest in men, I do find myself open to someone accepting of the Real Me, regardless of gender. I've been too unhappy for most of my life, and at this point, I think that I just need to be with someone who loves and accepts me regardless to their gender. The older that I get, the less important something like gender becomes. We all want to be accepted and loved, and for girls like us, it does not come as easy as for "other" people. Just my two cents. Christine
    Christine, sweetie, that was sooooo amazing! I'm sitting here with tears running down my cheeks. Bless you for being so open and honest, and I hope you and he are friends and happy forever. Cherish him, and I know he'll cherish you.

    Hugs 'n kisses, Marci
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