I would love to be with a nice sexy guy, but omg the attitudes of males out there! But that won't stop me from searching!
I would love to be with a nice sexy guy, but omg the attitudes of males out there! But that won't stop me from searching!
That was my experience too , they get what they want and then you never see them again.
They get what you let them get.. and then you never see them again. When I was dating I was the one who decided if I wanted to have sex or not. They may have had a good game, but unless I wanted it.. not gonna happen. But when it did... I let them think it was their idea. As i stated in another dating thread.... The ones who are interested will come back even after you deny them a few times, the ones who were just looking for sex will fade away.Originally Posted by Terri Semes
Come on ladies, this is basic "girl 101"If you were out looking for sex, and got sex.. it's a draw! (you.. being used in the general sense , not you personally Terri) lol
Kel
Last edited by kellycan27; 06-10-2010 at 07:02 PM.
Yes Yes Yes! I would totally want to date a guy that likes my CDing. It would turn me on to be treated like a woman all the time :-)
I have dated and shared intimacy with a couple of males in the past, and enjoyed it very much. Though as far as a seriouse commited relationship goes....I would only be with a woman.
Guys are no different with other guys, and it can hurt (the emotions) there too.They get what you let them get.. and then you never see them again. When I was dating I was the one who decided if I wanted to have sex or not. They may have had a good game, but unless I wanted it.. not gonna happen. But when it did... I let them think it was their idea. As i stated in another dating thread.... The ones who are interested will come back even after you deny them a few times, the ones who were just looking for sex will fade away.
Come on ladies, this is basic "girl 101"
Kel
I have yet to CD and date a guy. I would like to go out, at least see what it is like. But I do know for sure, that whether in guy mode or en femme, I would only date or want to be with another man. Like some in here, I have been out for a number of years in various degree as a gay man, and have never, not once had a sexual attraction for another woman, since my earliest feelings.
Chrissy
that is who I am .A women.if it takes a man to say sweet things to me "Krissie " I love your skirt, dont be shy may I kiss you? make me feel like the women I am ,then yes I have thought about a man treating me as a women.however........ ?
I'm not really interested in men per se...
I would like to experience other aspects though. Would be nice to go out on a date for dinner and dancing. Just being treated as a woman in that type of situation would be nice.
I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !
mayby . date a cd . in private we could be girls together. out I need to be the female .
I don't want to be intimate with a man. But I have thought about being on a date with one. I think it would feel so girly to be escorted on a romantic date by a handsome gentleman. hehe
Hi Girls,
I class myself as bisexual and find that when in drab I don't fancy men at all really although I have had a few encounters. However, when dressed as Karen I long to go out and be accepted and wanted as any proper girl would want to be by a man.
One of my main fantasies actually is to go out and have a really good night with a fella and then see where it leads but as yet I simply don't have that kind of confidence or courage.
When in drab I totally love my girls...all those soft squishy bits and interesting curves lol!!
Karen xxxx
it depends on if the man was ftm for me because i'm also lesbian
Oh reina ... you need to know that FtMs are NOT women, so if you identify as femme and you are attracted to a transman, it is an insult if you consider yourself to be a lesbian with him. Such a union would be hetero.
Reine
Yes, it is offensive, also a reason why I dislike lesbian women…[btw NO offence].
It about time you do some research, like everyone else has to do cause if you said that to a transman's face you could get hurt. J/S. Or at leats I know if it was me, I wouldn't let them get away with it.
[Facts right = no problems] Simple.
[Edit: I’m getting SICK of this! Coming into almost every thread just to make sure people aren't being offensive against us. Just f*cking ban me for life already I’ve had enough of it!]
[SIZE="3"]-Broken out of a window in hell-[/SIZE]
I am definitely a lesbian
I like women pure and simple.
I couldn't even think of sexual realations with Mana, even when in his really feminine looking outfits.
On that note, I would "date" a good looking TG, TS, or CD, IF they allowed me to CD, or go androgynous as well.
I dream of being able to date a girl wearing or looking whatever I would like, and her liking it.
I've thought about it a bit to be honest and I would, provided my wife could be there as a safety net should I decide I'm not ready for it, wouldn't mind the naughty stuff, but once again my wife would need to be involved (I need someone to teach me hehe)
The only way that i would date a man is IF he were another CD. and then let the chips fall where the may.
From Madrid to Montreal that underneath it all that Tina prefers pantyhose
But there is no way that i would date a man. I could probly date a transman or a transwoman but overall the male physique is utterly unattractive to me. Something about musclebound stud just mskes me shudder. While I would LOVE to be treated as a woman deserves, I would much rather it come from a genetic female or at least someone who acts or thinks like a woman. No guy I have ever known except for my dear friend JB, who is in Iraq right now, is a true gentleman. The rest are just boys or horndogs
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Josephine Michelle Larens
Not at all. I've met a few guys on parties or in pubs who wanted to talk or dance with me. They all asked what I would do later, where I stay and all that. I feel very uncomfortable talking to guys, I love woman. I'ld rather meet a female and spend an evening or a full days with her en femme. I would love to go shopping with a gf, that would be so wonderful.
Dating a women when dressed would be the best I can imagine.
I can't believe this thread is still goin strongIt must be a record or something if someone keeps score of such things. Where is that hot girl who had tallied up the votes, back in december!?!
Last edited by legz31; 12-05-2010 at 09:39 AM.
Being with a man was far from my mind when I began dressing. I still prefer women, but when I am with a man it gives me the complete feeling of being a woman. I do prefer to play with other CDs but when dressed I do find men and their anatomy very desirable.
I agree with you, this seems like a good scenario for a less than full-time TG. I daydream about it often. Kinda hard to find though. Most guys lack the courage for even that.
Very good advice. It's kinda hard to follow when your thermostat runs as hot as mine usually does. You hope that you can act on your desires spontaneously and still keep the guy coming back. That's not how most guys tick, however, plus there seems to be a general assumption that CDs/TGs are just out for sex, too. They really, really don't get that they're dealing with a feminine person, and they approach you with a crudeness and lack of sensitivity they would never dream of trying with a GG. Bottom line is, if you want sex but want something more too, you gotta curb your enthusiasm and play the game.They get what you let them get.. and then you never see them again. When I was dating I was the one who decided if I wanted to have sex or not. They may have had a good game, but unless I wanted it.. not gonna happen. But when it did... I let them think it was their idea. As i stated in another dating thread.... The ones who are interested will come back even after you deny them a few times, the ones who were just looking for sex will fade away.
Come on ladies, this is basic "girl 101"
Kel
Last edited by sherri; 07-10-2010 at 09:30 AM.
Whether or not it's the gentleman or the rude crude dude we have the final say as to whether we are going to let him bed us. If you meet someone and end up in the sack with them the first night.. be prepared to never see him again, but don't beat him up because you were a willing participant.Guys might assume that because we are TG that it's all about sex, but we have the power to dispel that notion before too much time has passed. If your hormones were raging and you give it up...own it! If you are looking for more than just sex you might want to be a bit more circumspect in how you act.
Even then it's a crap shoot. WE just need to keep things in the proper prospective. I have found that the best way to keep them coming back is to keep them off balance.. keep them hungry so to speak. If you give up the prize.. what's the incentive other than for maybe another shot at you? In high school the "easy" girls might have been popular, but who wanted to call them their G/F?
Yup you def have to play the game.. but you can make the rules.
kel
Last edited by kellycan27; 07-10-2010 at 11:51 AM.
That would be me. I've never had anyone refer to me as 'that hot girl' though. I like it! lolWhere is that hot girl who had tallied up the votes, back in december!?!
But seriously, I've also noticed that attitudes about dating men increase over time and I've often wondered if this is because the fantasy builds up to a fevered pitch? Does sexual orientation really change (providing a TG is not on hormones), or would the reality of having sex with a guy severely disappoint if it were experienced in RL?
Or .. the big question: For those who are discovering an increasing desire for men, are they slowly getting out of denial over always having been homosexual? Have their sexual experiences with GGs been fulfilling all along or were these TGs just going through the motions because they felt they had to? I'm not saying this is the case but the questions do come to mind.
Reine
I don't know if the reality of sex with a guy would disappoint, but the reality of dealing with guys might. I sometimes smile, not in a derogatory or superior way, when I listen to someone mulling over the question of dating guys, as if it is all up to her to simply decide to say yes and voila, Prince Charming comes riding in. Uh, not.
I don't think -- in fact I know -- I wasn't just going through the motions with GGs, but I now believe the latent interest in sex with men was always there too. I suspect this true for many mtf TGs, whether they realize it or not. I told someone, a gay guy, recently that the best way I knew how to explain my bisexuality is that GGs are my native tongue and guys are my second language.
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