Well, it's been about a week now since I have told her about Gisele. She yet knows my fem name. She hasn't asked and I haven't offered to tell her yet.
She is taking it pretty well. It will take her some time to accept it totaly. She told me that she still needs her son as well. I told her that Jennifer (my other half) that she will say that Greg is still her goofy son. She is happy to hear that.
She, has talked to a good friend of hers about me. Her friend assured her that I am totaly normal. Bless her! And that I could have told her worse things like drugs and the like....
I haven't seen my mother for about a year now. I knew I would see her on Christmas but I knew I would not tell her then face to face. That is why I wrote her a nice long letter about me.
I now know that my mother is dealing with it pretty well as she brought me some things of hers! Like makeup that was the wrong color for her and shampoos and perfume. She also brought me some nice clothes that she can't fit into anymore. I still can't wear most of her things as they are still a big on me. I can wear most of the tops she gave me. Jennifer stole all of the jammys she sent...LOL and the shoes cause they were too small for me.
But here is the kicker. She gave me her new wig that she wore twice! It's a nice one and I like it, but it is blonde. I am a total burnette as she is without the hair coloring. I tried it on WOW never thought I could go blonde. My brows are dark brown and it looks a bit off. I may get use to it, but I really love my longer burnette real hair now.
After the Christmas party at my Grandmothers we talked for a minute and she said that she needs time to adjust. I assured her that I needed time to adjust to myself and I didn't just accept myself overnight either.
She assured me that she had not lost an ounce of love for me.
So far so good.
Also she REALLY loves Jennifer soooooo much knowing that she supports me 110%.
Thanks for all of the support girls!
Gisele