absolutely not
absolutely not
As a woman trapped in a mans body I identiy with and have declaired myself a lesbian. Back in the day when I dressed alone, I used to get extreemly sexualy aroused. It was so bad that I could barly even put on a pair of panties. I still get aroused sometimes but not as much as I used to. Now what I really enjoy when dressed is when the wife is in a good mood. My Relationship with my Wife is still a work in progress. It has been 4 or 5 years now and she still isn't fully accepting of my female self. But when she is accepting and gets attracted to me when I am in Girly mode...Watch Out because I am in for a treat - Drives me insane.
I definitely am turned on when I first slip on some silk panties. Theres a thrill to it
must be har.....uh...difficult putting on panties when you're aroused.
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i am in the school that i don't get really sexually turned on when i dress. i get a strong fem rush as i feel the things go on and then see myself dressed so nicely. Its that fem rush that makes me feel so good and want to do it more and more. Its so hard to explain but its so nice...and would so love to share it with a gg.
If that makes any sense at all!!
It's a yeap for me, since I get turned on every time I dress. It's always been sexual for me, well, ever since I learned what sex was. Nothing better than being able to be able to please yourself, especially when no one else is around.
This thread reminds me of the scene in "Silence of the Lambs" where Ted Levine is dancing around in his altogether while posing in a mirror, and mouths the eternal sentiment of the bi-CD/TV, "I'd f**k me!"
I used to be a lot more excited by looking at myself dressed, but I still have that little male animalistic bit of my personality which causes me to look into my full length mirror and ask if I would fancy myself? Unfortunately, as I grow older the amount of makeup, accessorizing, primping, and hair/wig styling which go into the effort to get the question answered affirmatively has increased exponentially.
I am a terrible narcissist, anyways. I can get excited while posing nude as a guy and thinking how hot I could be in bed with myself if I were in TV mode. How sick is that?
For a long time I thought I was the only one who got turned on by their own photos, LOL. It's not just you.
You are very lucky to have a spouse who dresses with you. Mine won't even take a pic with me
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Don't get aroused when I look in the mirror when I'm dressed just happier with what I see. I remember the days of waiting until I was alone in the house and going wild in a pair of tights but I just don't get that anymore. I dress to be me not to excite me
Well, sometimes it's a real kick if my mind is in that special place, and the photo is a really good one. But most of the time I don't find my photos to be something that are anything more than someone modeling women's clothing and trying to look presentable.
Long ago when all this was new to me those photos seemed to be a lot more exciting than they are now.
The mirror, if I ignore some very specific problems, lots of very specific problems, can help get me feeling pretty good sometimes. But again, I know that woman in the glass much too well. She needs to spend more time on the treadmill, get her nose worked on, shave better, and even then I know too much about her problems.
Now there are photos of other girls that I find very interesting but that is a different topic.
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I know when I first started it was most definitely a turn on to be dressed. But somehow, it later became less of a turn on and more like a natural thing for me. I DO get turned on when I wear an outfit that makes me look really hot, though.
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If I take a lot of time to look good, sometimes I do get turned on and I want to kiss my mirror and well you know the rest...........................
Back when I first started dressing, back when I was just a wildly hormonal teen, there was certainly a large part of it that was undeniably sexual. I just couldn't believe or fully take in all that I was able to become there in front of my mother's vanity mirror. The transformation was so complete and hit every chord of my desires. The desire to have been born a girl, the desire to be beautiful, the desire to be kissed and accepted. Poor taste I think to go further, but to say I was able to find satisfaction within it all, though the guilt afterwards weighed heavily on my young spirt.
Over the years, as many of you can undoubtedly attest, the sexual aspect of it wanes and is replaced with a simple sense of becoming complete. Why we are this way, I haven't a clue. But unlike my former child self where it was all so fraught with such anguish and shame, I now luxuriate within my femininity. And if there's a sexual aspect, it is only that the desire to be with a man become more intense.
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Why wouldn't I? I'm so hot!
In the past it was the major urge but today just reflecting on outfits and the events and memories of pictures usally relaxes me just as if I dresseed up.
It depends. If I am just in a bra and panties/thong not really. If I put something sexier on then for sure.
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Do I get "turned on" when I see my femme self in the mirror? .... err no, not at all. I don't get turned on sexually, but sometimes if my makeup is really good and my outfit is cute, and my "hair" looks good, I think to myself, you know ... you look pretty good. In another reality I wouldn't mind a date with her.
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Interesting reponses... I am glad I am not alone in my feelings. But finding this site has made me realize I an truely not alone.... Thanks
The first time I got all dressed up, I was definitely adoring myself in the mirror. Yeah, a little awkward for the GF when I'm checking myself out, but she's the other half of the girl-on-girl fantasy. It's all good with her these days, because it's a definite "YES" for me.
Several years ago I tried to see how I looked. It was a sexual experiment to see if I could get off by how I looked. I didn't think I'd have much luckk. Anyway, my shoulders and back were too big, my arms were too big, and I moved like a barbarian. So no, I didn't get turned on. I'm not a female. I've always felt kind of uglyish and small, but that experience taught me that I am not hopeless! If I'm not turned on by myself, that's a good sign. Since then it's something I infrequently do solely for how it feels and looks. Looking at the material enhances how it feels. Almost like I need to be recharged - so maybe how it looks matters most? I can relive myself just looking at the fabric alone all by itself.
This thread is very selfish/indulgent/narcissistic. Maybe that's why some GG's don't like CDing because their husband doesn't need them anymore to get his satisfaction? I feel guilty posting a reply. I bet people who do get turned on by it feel partly guilty?? Then again, it doesn't matter how you get off, there're a million ways to get off. People get off on everything and anything. Point is, when you CD to turn yourself on, you're telling your wife that you don't need her.
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