Results 1 to 25 of 26

Thread: Does anyone enjoy shocking/humiliation??

Hybrid View

Previous Post Previous Post   Next Post Next Post
  1. #1
    Junior Member LauraCassidy's Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2009
    Posts
    31

    Does anyone enjoy shocking/humiliation??

    Do any of you girls get off on shocking the public or humiliation or being called a sissy?? Actually, have any of you brave girls being super-brave and gone into a male toilet while en femme. This is something I was NEVER do!!!

    This is something I like doing ever since I have taken my private crossdressing out in the public

    For example, while walking down a street in a busy city centre, I just decided to march into a hotel foyer where a large crowd had gathered. I simultaneously cringed/relished the sensation as I walked on the marble floor with my 5 inch metal-tipped stilettos (the noise was so deafening and erotic)

    The thing about going out en femme is that you are SO VULNERABLE. I know - sometimes you can be vulnerable en drab... Anyway, I would be wary of sitting down in a cafe and being harassed by some tranny-hater but I digress.

    Apart from the fetish/erotic side of Xdressing, nothing beats that wonderful sensation of mingling among the public as an anonymous incognito tranny!!!!
    You are NOT crossdressed until you are wearing high heels!

    the erotic black patent stiletto heel... surely there is no greater aphrodisiac??

  2. #2
    Cat's Eye Siren ArleneRaquel's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Illinois
    Posts
    8,714
    Fag & sissy r terms I hate !!!!
    Fulfilling a Lifetime Dream of Living as a Woman in My Adult Years. Ten Years Living 24/7 as a Mature Lady

    My Love of Cat's Eye Frames, Bangles, Red Lipstick, Nails, & Cheeks, Comes From My Mother - An Irish Beauty

    I'm Always Rainbow Proud

  3. #3
    Trans Adventurer supreme RobertaM's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2009
    Location
    Vancouver BC canada
    Posts
    775
    I was out in mainstream daylight public this week for an appointment with my dr. Rush hour,, I passed by several hundred people on the sidewalk,, I wanted to test my look and passabilitity.
    I was dressed conservative but with 4" knee high boots.

    Im a reasonably good with make up, but i m a large tgirt if you take a close look i will be read everytime.

    Results,,

    75% no reaction,, 15 % eyecontact and a smile,, mostly women, 10% a weired 2nd glance,

    Interesting.

    xo Roberta
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] Vancouver Home 2010 olympics!

  4. #4
    Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2009
    Posts
    225
    For me it's not a sexual or feeling humiliated thing.

    For me it's who I really am inside. It's the real me. I grew up from as long back as I can remember wishing I would have been born a girl.


    Vicki

  5. #5
    Cat's Eye Siren ArleneRaquel's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Illinois
    Posts
    8,714
    I have always wanted to be a girl ! MsA 24/7
    Fulfilling a Lifetime Dream of Living as a Woman in My Adult Years. Ten Years Living 24/7 as a Mature Lady

    My Love of Cat's Eye Frames, Bangles, Red Lipstick, Nails, & Cheeks, Comes From My Mother - An Irish Beauty

    I'm Always Rainbow Proud

  6. #6
    Aspiring Member Sandy Banks's Avatar
    Join Date
    Oct 2009
    Location
    coastal carolina
    Posts
    500
    I've over dressed, or over glitzed to go to my P.O. box a few times and the only negative reactions I get are from old ladies who snarl at me......it's a kick to do it occasionally.....btw old men get kind of a look like they're going to drool........................

  7. #7
    Member Dee2U's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    Posts
    175
    The last thing I would ever want to do is shock anyone with who I am. IMHO if we are looking for acceptance then those who are paving the way by being out en femme when not passable do us shy ones a great favour by being their own loveable selves. I think this is especially true in interactions with the elderly (not just seniors). We need to respect that they will not change. No shocking for me!...Dee

  8. #8
    Gold Member sherri52's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2009
    Location
    north of Cinncinatti
    Posts
    6,151
    I don't pass as it is I don't want the extra attention.
    Put a little lipstick on you'll feel better

  9. #9
    Adventuress Kate Simmons's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2006
    Location
    The Poconos PA
    Posts
    18,971
    Me vulnerable? Doubt it. Actually I more enjoy humiliating other people, especially when they act like morons.
    Second star to the right and straight on till morning

  10. #10
    Countess in Exile divamissz's Avatar
    Join Date
    Sep 2008
    Location
    Dallas, TX
    Posts
    717
    Sometimes, I do dress to express a "**** you" attitude when I'm in that kind of mood. But you also have to be willing to accept that you may get just that reaction back, and be ready to deal with the consequences.

    Do I like feeling vulnerable? No, but then I rarely do. Being over six feet tall and described by a friend as One Big Bitch tends to help. Not looking like I'm scared or a victim does too.

    But yes, I've walked through the middle of a busy mall with my head up and hearing my heels on the tile floor and knowing I'm the center of attention and just smiled...
    Countess in exile
    Keep Calm and Dance to Morrissey
    Z and the Universe
    I'm also on Twitter and Facebook

  11. #11
    Gold Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2007
    Location
    Indiana
    Posts
    7,094
    My pay stubs are humiliation enough for me.

    Shock - one time I disconnected an ignition wire on the engine while the car was running, shocked me hardcore.

    For the rest, yeah being called names is not fun.
    It takes a true Erin to be a pain in the assatar.

  12. #12
    Senior Member Deidra Cowen's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Atlanta
    Posts
    1,683
    Shock - I am guilty from time to time in going to regular places and shocking the normal folk. One of my favorite tricks is to go into a starbucks on the way to clubbing. Fun and I get a caffine jolt to help me stay up late! But I am not as brave as you might think, I pick a starbucks in a nice part of town where hip tolerant peeps are likely to be hanging out at.

    Humilitation - Nope not looking for that and have been the target of such type thing. Once a performer at a straight bar singled me and a friend out. Announced between sets there were two ******** in attendance. I hauled bootie outta there. Next worst deal was at a waffle house late at night. Anyway personally I don't find that to be a thrill.

    Sissy - sure call me one but only in the bedroom.

  13. #13
    W.Y.S.I.W.Y.G. Jason+'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Dec 2009
    Location
    Diamond Bar, CA
    Posts
    770

    Talking

    Quote Originally Posted by Denise Rhodes View Post
    Me vulnerable? Doubt it. Actually I more enjoy humiliating other people, especially when they act like morons.
    While I do like positive comments, being passed by with no reaction whatsoever wouldn't hurt my feelings either. I don't even mind the stupid sheeple provided they can be quiet about it or not bring to my attention that they have a problem.

    As far as vulnerability I am not exactly small either and if you don't know better my face naturally tends to look mean or angry. The standards I learned in grade school apply there anyway; you may win but it won't be a painless victory!

    The closest we have come to maybe directly shocking people is we've noticed that when I am out with my wife and wearing nail polish or boots under ladies jeans the sheeple always give her the dirty looks. I want to have two t-shirts printed. The first is for her and will state "Stop looking at me he dressed himself." The other for me will have "Yes it is, No I'm not!"
    "You are not an accident, nor are you malfunctioning. You are performing EXACTLY as coded." For many "Man in a Dress" is the worst atrocity commit-able; for me it's just reality. Click to Learn About Me. Click to Complain About Me! There is a fine line between brutal honesty and honest brutality. It is rarely in the same place for the sender and the receiver.

  14. #14
    Platinum Member
    Join Date
    Jan 2010
    Location
    A bit south of the 49th!
    Posts
    23,730
    Not my thing. I can't pass, but if I could...I would want to fit in with the setting...

Tags for this Thread

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State