I have a GG friend (not really close, but we have mutual friends) who just broke up with her boyfriend of many years. I never really knew him, but the consensus is that she is better off without him.
Well, the break-up isn't going well and she still has quite a bit of anger toward him. Now It has turned nasty.
A few weeks ago I was talking to my SO after she had been 'out with the girls' to find out that my friend was 'outing' her ex to everybody in the group. How he 'liked to wear my clothes and dress as a woman'. My wife knows about my dressing and is fully accepting of me, so this wasn't an issue personally, but it made me feel bad for the guy.
Now she's moved on to other attacks. She just recently posted on her facebook status that 'My ex left some of his lacy panties behind when he moved out' and bemoaning the fact that there are no 'normal' men out there to date.
The good news is that nobody has really backed her up on this. Normally anything she posts gets lots of replies and starts discussions, but her posts on this topic are falling flat, like nobody wants to make a big deal out of it.
I'm staying on the sidelines because this is NOT the kind of person I want to out myslef to. I also don't know if these revelations have made it back to her ex yet or what his reaction will be.
I would consider having a chat with him... but honestly he is a bit of a jerk and I really don't want any kind of ties to him!
So I'm kind of sitting back to see how it plays out. So far, not too badly since for the most part her 'outing' of the man has been met by a collective yawn amongst her friends.