Nope, not in a million years!My wife is cool about me dressing around the house, but the 'buck stops' at the bedroom door.
Nope, not in a million years!
GO RED SOX!!!
Suzie
My SO loves me in silky things in bed. She has even bought me pajamas.
I go to bed every night with panties, camisole or gown but if any hanky panky is to take place they will be off at the end.
Hasn't happened yet. I do think about it.
Angie
My wife and I have been bed enfemme several times. We have matching girdles. I enjoy this time together so much. I don't think she is turned on by it, but is making me happy, God bless her heart.
A couple times but not very often. That was an early conditional boundary. Over time each of us grew more comfortable, and the boundary was breached. But only when she was comfortable with it.
The first was after a night,at a club in femme. Things just happened, the next time we tried I was so nervous and tense. It didn't work to well.
So short version yes but, only if things are right, for her.
Yes, I always sleep in a nightie and panties, unless it's too hot, and then it's only panties, and she has absolutely no problem with it. We even have matching pink nighties.
Karen
Lucky to be a girl 95.33% of the time
I have slept quite a few times in nightgowns. My wife doesn't think anything of it and it usually leads to good things in the morning.
Sleeping? I thought this was about sex?
Anyway Christina goes somewhere else during sex and my wife gets all of her husband. I separate my dressing from our sex life which is fine with me and better for my wife.
Of course if I'm feeling particularly fem that day I'll then change into a nightie for the sleeping part
Hmmm. I would be interested in trying this at some point, but I don't know....I couldn't ever see doing that with my wife. I think that's something I'd rather do with someone I don't have to wake up with the next morning, ya know? That would be weird for me, I think...
I would like to try it, though.
That's right. I am not attracted to women so if I think if my CD husband as a woman then it doesn't work for me. But he's not a woman..he's a CDing male..and I find I'm still attracted to him. So yes, sometimes, but not all the time. My husband isn't selfish so I know he'll be my man for me when I need my man too.Originally Posted by Jess
Oh yes, all the time! She likes it a lot! Perhaps it satisfies both our fantasies...?
Sully
Same for me. I really can't remember the last time Katie wasn't there in some way.
We always make love as two women...with a little added equipment. My wife is also bi-experienced, and has said that our love making is much more satisfying than it ever was with her male ex.
Hi Marina, My girl friend said she is not a L--- which is not a problem. I am Bi an she knows about it. To get to the point yes we have made love with me dressed she realy gets hot. GO FIGURE!!!!! Who am I to complaine. JO.gif "Big Roll Eyes")
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josephine,
it makes some sens to me - she's not a lesbian in the sense that she's overtly seeking female intimacy, but you're the ideal substitute, providing the f/f contact without challenge to her self image.
Not fully femme but often wearing panties, bra nighties or some other female stuff. Depending on day, wife either is ok with it or enjoys it.
I had a GG friend when I lived in Fl who sometimes helped me dress before bed. Her opinion was that I was better dressed. Maybe I am.
Put a little lipstick on you'll feel better
When I first suggested that I come to bed as Anna, my wife reminded me that just because I was CD, she wasn't a lesbian and didn't want to make love to a woman. That sort of ended any chance after that.
It's a shame too, because the one time that we started fooling around with me dressed the electricity of our nylons touching was so intense. I've never felt anything remotely like that before or since.
I had almost 50 years with my lovely late wife. I was definitely her man, but was also her girl friend many times at night. I mostly wore nightgowns, or other feminine sleep apparel until the children grew older.
The "dance" steps did not always remain the same!!
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
being in bed enfemme as I want to be or as appropriate for sleep. In the winter it is panties and the pjs my wife bought me and in the summer it's panties only or with a slip.
sure but I quickly came to the conclusion it is all in the mind. it never "felt" any different. so it was a fun build up
I feel so naked without something silky, slinky, smoothy, agaist my skin. The only time I'm not in feminine bedroom attire is when sleeping at friends homes, or on road trips with friends.
Tanya gets more action than her male friend in our bedroom, but that an't saying much either as other have mentioned. As for the dance steps, I was never a good dancer, so I plan on letting her lead the dancing. And enjoy it from the other side and see if that helps.
I guess the wife is OK with, cause she knows for sure whats under all those cloths. And she never complains when Tanya's over for a night of fun.
Tanya
I wear a night gown almost every night and my wife is fine with it. I also wear breast forms and hip pads often. Our lovemaking is actually enhanced with the clothing.
I'm allowed to wear whatever i want to bed with my wife.. She draws the line at clothes and shoes though. It must be either a nightie, satin PJ's, lingerie or just me. I do get her to take charge of things in the bedroom too, it really spices up our sex life and marriage.
