I just got home from going out as Cassandra again. I had to stop at the hardware store so I thought nothing of walking in there enfem. I started browsing around a little and then one of the employees there says to me, "are you finding everything ok maam?" and in my female voice I said that I was. I felt so much like a woman when he called me maam. I'm starting to look forward to going out as Cassandra.
Cassandra, that has to be so much fun - and so rewarding. Just being able to be a girl in everyday situations has got to be a great confidence builder!
watch out I see a future butch lesbian in the works. They love going to Home Depot...........
Be sure to ask if they have any pink nail aprons.
Hugs...Joni Mari
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Agree a total confidence booster. Talking of pink apron how abouts a pink tool set.
I just love being a woman. It does build confidence to be able to go out in everyday situations like that. I am totally comfortable being a woman. I think I pass as a woman great. I try to slow down and pace myself like a woman when I'm enfem too.
That's great Cassandra. Do you get a rush when you gets comments like that? Doesn't sound like it made you nervous at all!
With your totally femme face, do you have to do much at all besides walk differently and talk??Originally Posted by Cassandra
Yeah I seem to get a rush when I get those comments, I love it though. Nope I wasn't real nervous at all. I am going back out today as Cassandra hoping for just as nice of a time as yesterday.
Not really. I grew my hair out and went to a salon and had my hair done so I didn't have to get a wig which I like. Walking and talking is the hardest thing but it hasn't been too difficult.With your totally femme face, do you have to do much at all besides walk differently and talk??
[SIZE="2"]Excuse me – where would I find the Snap-On tools?
I can visualize you in the hardware store, and I’m wondering how it would go down in my little Kansas community if I were to sail into the local Ace Hardware store en femme? I’m sure someone would say, “You aren’t from around here, are you?” Well, actually I am, but I’m not, so there!Do you have any 2-cycle oil, Mr. Anderson? Oh, you haven't met me before, have you?
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LOL. The area I live in has about 400,000 people within a 30 mile radius, the city I live in has about 140,000 people so you don't really see the same people everyday so it works for me. It would suck to have to do it in such a small community though. I love going out enfem though, it makes me feel like a woman and that's exactly what I want to feel like[SIZE="2"]Excuse me – where would I find the Snap-On tools?
I can visualize you in the hardware store, and I’m wondering how it would go down in my little Kansas community if I were to sail into the local Ace Hardware store en femme? I’m sure someone would say, “You aren’t from around here, are you?” Well, actually I am, but I’m not, so there!
Congratulations Cassandra,
You have discovered the pure joy of being out and about and accepted as a woman. This is a joy that I have know for many years and never get tired of it. We girls just love to be Ma'am'd and when it is in a male oriented environment, so much the better.
I was in a Lowe's Home Center several days ago because I needed several items to complete a project I am working on. I was already out running a few errands and decided to just stop and pick up the things I needed. I was wearing a pair of 4" heels along with a skirt that was above my knees and black tights. On top was a purple turtle neck sweater and a black coat.
The stares I received while looking for electrical components were priceless and almost had me laughing. You'd think that they never saw a woman in this store looking for lighting fixtures, electrical boxes and wire. Finally, an extremely sweet older gentlemen approached me and offered "can I help you Ma'am". He just made my day. Too bad I had already located everything I was looking for, I would have loved to have him help me.
Ah the joys of being a woman in a man's world...
Nicole
"Excuse me. Do you have any painted nails? Maybe a pound of frenched pink ones?"
I agree, Frederique. Home town service might not be what is required for that.
I have the walk pretty good but the voice still intimidates me a bit. I guess I could claim that I channel for men without any warning.
[SIZE="3"]Brandi[/SIZE]
Love life and find happiness where you can.
Thank you. I just love being accepted as a woman. I've been enfem for over a week straight now and I never get tired of it, everywhere I go I go as a woman now. I'm sure I'll have some more enfem stories.
Cassandra
It has been my experience that regardless of what kind of store I am in, I get much more and better service than when I go to these same stores in drab. This is a part of what I love about "being a girl" (though I am long past being a girl)!
Hugs, Carole
It's a great feeling to be recognized as a woman.
Put a little lipstick on you'll feel better
Up there in Lindsborg??? I think the only thing that little town can be known for is the parade & Mc Donalds you see in American Flyers you should try & make it down here to Wichita sometime.
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