When someone talks about telling a friend or allowing a spouse to tell a friend about "this thing we do" (copyright Veronicamoonlit), we usually jump in with the warning about not being surprised if the word gets around.
<Booming voice from the sky> Be prepared to be outed! </BVFTS>.
I have been trying to pay attention lately (really!) to any stories about whether this is happening a lot or not. But outside of a few ex-wives outing one of us, I haven't seen much in particular about friends.
So what is your experience? Did you tell someone and they kept the secret or did they out you to others? I recently let my wife tell two friends and I am good so far, but outing probably takes time.
And to end this, I always thought to assume the worse, that way you are at least prepared. And I referred to this before, but I would expect the worse to be like a 70's shampoo commercial I remember. The lady likes it and tells two friends, who tells two friends,....
