What to do

[darcyann]

Hello

Darcy Ann here. I am a 39 CD from New Mexico recently getting a divorce of a wife of 7 years. For many years I was unsure about my life and what I wanted to do. The last 8 months have been different for me. I told my wife that I am bisexual and that I am a part time CD. She took it hard as any wife probally would. I have always like wearing womans cloths since I was about yearly teens. There were times I did not wear them. The last 3 years I wore them more often. I would go to work wearing panties, and stockings and nylons. The more I wore them the more I like wearing it. There was something missing thought. I still loved my wife and I had to tell her. We are getting a divorce and staying best of friends. It is something I have dealt my whole life and most my family has no clue. I want to do this more and want to not just be cloths I want the whole thing. Makeup, wigs, nails etc etc. I need any advice on how I deal with my feelings and I know this is not a counceling board. When you all went through this how did you deal with your feelings. I know this is right, but I still not sure what way to go stay CD or be a 24/7.

Thanks

Darcy Ann

[Mx Justina]

I won't hurt your long term direction, if you begin slowly avoiding overinvolvement... Understanding yourself and understanding what best fits you in terms of expression, lifestyle and internal self-identity... You shoot for long range steady state...not extremes...

Where are you going to be with all this you perceive, when you hit 40, 50, 60 and so on.

J.

[wilma]

Hi Darcyann
Just have fun with it. Explore the new feelings and read the experiences of the other girls. There is a lot of information here and all the support you can imagine. Welcome to the forum and I look forward to reading your posts. LOL Wilma