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    Noooo!!!! Sunday Surprise

    AHHHHHHH, im freaking out!!!!!

    I woke up this morning in what the wife didnt tear off the night before, i got up and went to make coffee for us, im banging around n the kitchen getting coffe stuff and when i turn around i see wifeys SISTER laying on the couch staring at me in my purple gstring....she kinda blinked and i beelined for the bed room.......the worst part is when i regained my composure and slinked back up the stairs from the room to finish coffee, she said "Good morning Donni"......She has never called me Donni......uuuugh i think my wife has told her about my cding without my knowledge......How did she just pick Donni from out of the air.......wife and her sis are close and tell each other everything, was i really to assume that her cross dressing hubby wasnt going to come up in convo......what am i to do......i am truly freaking out right now

    And who the eff let her in!!!
    Donni is scared right now gurls

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    It doesn't sound like she's one bit bothered by it. Why are you worried?

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    I take it that Donni is not a variation of you name?
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    Ask for makeup tips...

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    I guess the door's came off the closet wall's
    Once about 40 year's ago, I was driving a truck, long hall, came home
    early one morning, 3 am and went up-stairs to bed. I went into the bed
    room, and found 2 almost nude female bodies in bed. WOW. I crept back
    down stairs and fell asleep on the sofa. I did not want to wake up the
    wrong person. I would have been in Big trouble. The Wife had a out of
    town friend spend the night, since I was not goining to be home anyway.
    So the lession is: Look arround first, before you venture out. LOL Rader

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    I don't see what you are woried about. All she saw was you in a G-string? So? Just ignore the whole thing.

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    Smile. You've been out and didn't even know it. Go with the flow.

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    I agree with the rest. If you male name isn't Don, then you are out. The best thing is to be comfortable with it. If you tap dance around and act embarrassed, then you add to the false impression of it being something you shouldn't be doing. This is something you want to do. So be proud and be glad she knows instead of afraid. This could be a big step for you, so hold you head up and act confident. And have fun with it!

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    now is your chance...don't say anything but be confident comfortable and strong...let her bring it up and make it a positive thing..

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    First of all, it sounds as if Donni is out of the closet since she used that name to greet you. Second, if in fact she reacted as you stated, I wouldn't worry since she appears to be okay with the idea of you being a crossdresser. Thirdly, don't stress yourself hon, that's what causes wrinkles.

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    wow, sounds like a oppertunity to have another friend whiled dressed. Maybe she is accepting andwouldn't mine seeing donni more often.

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    Absolutely

    Quote Originally Posted by Karen7cd View Post
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    Absolutely love that........

    But seriously, take deep breaths and relax. If she had wanted to, she could have called you all kinds of unfun things. Get yourself together then either have a talk; all 3 of you or let your wife talk to her and make sure she is 100% cool (or even 60%+). Then just enjoy what alot of us at this time only wish for. mj

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    No reason to be scared - clearly she has known for sometime and still spent the night in your home.

    OK, a word of advice to you and everyone else here if I may? Most of us have had a long period where we desperately wanted to share with someone, wanted someone to talk to, and yet we just couldn't do it. Do you remember the weight on your shoulders; the isolation and the loneliness of wanting someone to talk to? Well that is what we condemn our wives and SO's to when we share our secret with them. Now THEY have something that weighs on them, something they want to speak with someone about, and to share the load with.
    My advice to everyone is that you should not tell your SO and then expect her not to share it with someone she is close to. While your SO may be the rare one that can tolerate not speaking to anyone, you would be silly to expect it and perhaps even be cruel to her by demanding it.

    Clearly your wife accepts this part of you, and part of that acceptance may well have been influenced by her discussions with her sister. It kept it from being some deep, dark, and over whelming thing in her life. Count your blessings, hug your wife, and give your sister-in-law a great big smile and a wink.

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    Don't worry about it...as everyone says, the "cat is out of the bag" so you might as well move along and actually, you can enjoy it now! You actually have your wife in a corner now, and can tell her that you would like to dress more (if that is what you want) since she told her sister....and now, the 3 of you can go out...think about that! I say this because I was "outed" many years ago only to my immediate family...we didn't talk about it, but my dad, grandma, 3 sisters, and two stepmothes ( I'm not positive about the 2nd but I'm 99% sure) know about Maria, and NO ONE ever taunted or talked to me about it...

    bottom line...you can "use this" now to your advantage...<giggle>

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    My name is Don, but im not called donni by anyone not privy to my Crossdressing to some extent, im starting to calm down some tho, the wifey and her sis hung out drinking coffee untill wifey left for work a few min ago, nothing seemed to be weird tho thank god. Still, i wanna ask the wife if she knows, but at the same time im not sure if i really even want to know either way. im so glad i didnt still have my corset and skullprint stalkings on this morning...wow

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    until she used your femm name, it was purely an embarrassing situation of being caught almost nude in your own home by your sister-in-law. If your name is Don...your assuming way too much, if not ....what is left to worry about?

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    It seems that you have two accepting gg in your life how lucky that is. Relax and enjoy their insights to being a woman. Best wishes!

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    Hi Donni if she does know it obviously doesn't faze her or she would have said a remark, so I wouldn't worry and feel happy that she is still friends with you. Unless you really don't want it to get out to people that are close to you. Just look at it this way you have another gg to help you in your pastime.

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    Sounds to me like she is cool with it and sisters do seem to share everything don't they, I wouldn't fret if I was you, easy for me to say I know but she seemed to take it very well from what you said and is she knows her sis is cool with it then why not!

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    Well, CD or not, I imagine getting caught in a g-string was quite the sight. I think that alone would be a little embarrasing. Well I mean unless you truely have the body to show off in something like that.

    Just yeah, I guess by now you have gotten a grip.

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    and the problem is?????
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    After all the advice and the fact it is out of the bag it is time to put on the nicest outfit and move on. Look how many have two women who supports your life style. Licky girl

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    Elaborating on what Mirani posted: If there is a problem here, it's her's, not your's.
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    So she caught you in a G-string, so what unless you had something else on. I walk around the house sometimes nude sometimes not but then again I live by myself. If a friend or neighbor seen me I would be embarrassed not it is not the end of the world. Carry on like nothing has happened and see where it goes from there.

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