Hi all! I posted a few weeks back ( "I need some advice....") about my wife going from, what seemed to be total acceptance to apathetic disgust(yes, I know that is a contradiction) in regard to my dressing. I got lots of wonderful advice, some of which I used, but all was appreciated. Lots of advice was dead on, as far as her feelings.
Well, after talking to her, I brought the subject up, and listening and listening, I have now been waiting and waiting. I agreed to put a hold on dressing ( at least while she is around)
until she sorts out her feelings and she is ready to talk about it again. I told her very plainly that I could not/would not wait a long time, but fully understood her need for reflection and time. I am trying to be as sensitive and understanding as possible to her feelings; I know this is not an easy issue for many GGs.
Anyway it is now more than a month, and I want to dress up so bad, it hurts sometimes! Yet, I still am waiting for her to talk to me. We are going on a cruise next week and I know there will be time for a good talk; my question: should I bring up the subject, again? The last time we talked about I also brought it up. Does it sound like she is just trying the "ignore it and it will go away" strategy?
I am sorry to keep coming back to all of you terrific people with these questions but these past few months have been very difficult for me, in 3 years I went from climbing out of the closet, to acceptance, complete happiness, shopping together, doing nails together, etc, to complete disdain and now, well as I have described above.........I feel so confused.