After initial discussion (in depth) my wife has come to accept my dressing and need to do so. She is still not completely comfortable having me dressed around her, but at the same time is comfortable with allowing me to go out dressed on occasion. She has come to accept my being totally shaved, wearing panties, nighties, etc. and having painted toe nails. It has been a slow, but steady growth for us both. The key has been assuring her that I am still the same person she married and that I will do nothing to embarrass or compromise her. She has not and never will be a participant in my dressing, but that is OK.