I recently joined my campus's GLBT organization, because I wanted to connect with other Trans people. Unfortunately, and statistically not surprising, the group is almost entirely gay. It is even called the Gay Alliance. This means that if I want to visit the GLBT center, then I am surrounded by gay men. Their conversations are mainly the same as any other group of college students, but they occasionally hit some topics that are a little uncomfortable for me.
My question to the forum is, how do you feel about being the only non-gay person in a group? Obviously this question only applies to people that are not gay themselves, though I would be interested in the opinions of anyone that is alone in an otherwise uniform group; gay, bi, GG, whatever.
As for my own views, I see gay people the same way I see any group with a motivation I don't share: To each his own, do what you want. I just feel a little out of place when the people I'm with start comparing flavors of the small round things in wrappers left there by an AIDS awareness group (guess). I'm already feeling different as a crossdresser, I really don't need to add another layer of difference.
side note: I don't mean to insult anyone, I apologize if this is taken the wrong way. The post feels clear enough to me.