But why can't I come out again? Should I come out again?
Many years ago when I was young, I was on holiday with a friend. Things got really emotional for me and I have no idea how or why, but I ended up telling my mum about me and my crossdressing at the time. (it was through text message though). She told me we would talk about it when I got back, but we never did! Another time when I was older, I asked her something which had shocked me. I asked why we never talked about it and she basically said, did we really need to.
Since then, this whole area has been pretty much off limits. Its like we both pretend it does not exist, both pretend the other does not know. She tried to bring it up once (when I was eighteen or 19) and I cut her off straight away and told her quite sharply that we are not going to talk about this. I quite surprised myself.
Now, some things have changed for me in this whole area and it is making me wish I could talk to her so much about it. I am not sure why though or what I would expect out of it. But the feeling of wanting to just won't go away but gets difficult because of all the negative emotions that come up because of it. What if it was something I am meant to keep to myself?
Thing between us are not really good either, she is very loving and caring but I just can't share anything about myself to her..even 'normal' things. What would everyone suggest though? I hate the whole building up with I should do it, I'm going to do it which usually ends in some excuses on why I should not or defeat. You would think it would of been easier because of before, but it feels like that has never happened.
Any advice would be useful