not quite sure how to word this so i dont get beat up too bad, so i will just go for it.i guess the question i am asking is if real girls are aware of the lingerie that they are wearing,i mean,like the slip sliding across nylons and panties,or when you sit down as a lady and smooth your skirt or dress and feel your panties and stockings.i have been married to a pretty understanding woman for quite a few years who knows about me and accepts me for who and what i am,but i can still see at times that she is not sure why i am this way.for me the feel of the lingerie against your outer clothes wheather they be male or female is still a real rush