At least I thought it was. When I met y exgirlfriend I told her everything about my fem side. She said get rid of everything or she'd pack up and leave.
Being a new relationship I agreed and we lived together for five years before we broke up over another issue.
So when I met my loving wife of going on three years now I told her nothing about Brenda. She was the one who wanted me to put on one of her bras and I hesitated at first but finally gave in to my urges. I've been dressing in front of her for over a year now and no problems with my dressing up.
We just have the normal problems that married couples have on a daily basis.

Anyone else have a simular experience with two different women?