do you think its wrong to bend the truth a little in order to be more 'acceptable?' for example, ive told SAs at bridal shops that i'm buying a dress 'for charity' (ok, not bending the truth, just lying) so that they would be more comfortable helping me. i'm afraid that if i were honest, they would treat me like a weirdo and take all the fun out of the process! another example: i've submitted questions on yahoo answers like 'which wedding gown looks better', and i've made up a few details about my ficticious wedding so that people won't be suspicious. (the responses are awesome, by the way). i really want some honest non-cd/tg feedback, and i don't think i can get it being 100% honest.
are these all just innocent white lies or am i really doing something morally wrong? is there a level of misinformation that is acceptable (and expected) on the internet? anyone have a thought on this? anyone have similar experiences? i feel a little guilty about it. if you want the links to my yahoo questions, i'm glad to post them. ; )
EDIT: the 'charity' story is this -- i'm in a mock beauty pageant fund raiser. this was true on one trip, but usually not true.
EDIT #2: and i never tried to get a discount with the charity story. BUT, when i was (really) going to do the mock beauty pageant, a salon offered to completely make me over for free (hair, makeup, nails, false eyelashes, etc.), in return for a little publicity. but, i ended up not going through with it. : (