Hi all,
My first post here. My quandry: Good and bad, but I'm a big, naturally muscular guy (6'3" 200lbs with pretty low bodyfat). I've always had really nice looking girlfriends, but they've all invariably been attracted to me because I kind of look like a basketball player. Anyways, I'm in my mid-30s, and have only "come out" to one girlfriend (lukewarm reaction, and my CDing didn't end the relationship). I broke up with a few others after casual conversations about CDing in general prompted a "that's too freaky, I could never be with a guy who did that," from them.
Anyways, now I've got a great girlfriend who I can see marrying some day. She sees me as a big strong guy with hair on his chest. When I'm single, I shave or wax on occasion, but either way, I could never pass as a woman.
Anybody in a similar predicament? and any advice on how to break the news that her "big manly guy" likes to wear women's undies? I feel that she'll either accept it, or will dump me, but I don't think she'll do something like out me to friends/co-workers. Need some encouraging words.
Thx