This is something I wrote a while back and pretty well sums up my agreement with my wife about Shaylee's existence. it is something that I wrote in URNOTALONE.
Hi just a note about an incedent that happened the other day when my wife and I were out shopping. Since I am never in public enfemme, I was in male mode. We were at Dillard's when a crossdresser showed up. She was not at all passing; however I think she thought she was. She brought to much attention to her self by not wearing clothing that was appropriate for the occasion. Let me try to discribe a woman in her forties that looked like a bad hooker. She had black cotton streatch pants, a white tube top that bared her midrif with a brown shrug with fur collar. Her shoes were 4" stilleto mules that what had a 2" leapard skin strap across the foot with a 2" sole. Her wig looked like she had combed it with a tornado wind, it was really bad and wild. She wore too much make up and was very bizzare. Put all this on a frame of a man that is 50lbs. overwieght and you would see what I saw.
I felt sorry for her and was glad that she didn't here the comments that I heard from the GG's that were arround me, like: " They should't let someone like that in this store", "What if children were to see something like that, it could harm them", "
That is the most discusting perversion I have ever seen, he should be locked up".
I hate to say it but that poor sole gives all the T-girls a bad reputation. A few of those arround the stores and those who sometimes get read might find it less accepting and more dangerous to be out in public. When my wife, who has as her main rule about my crossdressing, "Keep it in the closet", said to me when we got out of earshot of anyone said to me. "I would just die if I heard anyone say anything that crual about you if you were crossdressed. That is one reason I don't let you go out, I love you too much". She is right , those things could be said of me because the reality is in realtime and in person I don't pass. I can look good in pictures be cause I can manipulate angles and lighting to look different than the reality. And that is ok with me. Back before I met my wife and I was an engenue( a pretty young thing) my weight was 135 lbs. I could pass. I did it so well that I even attended some of my general ed. classes at the university enfemme and got hit on by some of the boys from those classes. AHHHHHH to be young again. Now I am retired older guy who has the physique of a over indulgent lover of food who is 6'2" and 230 lbs. I am very content to just do this thing with my wife and let the pictures that decieve so well be seen by those who want to see me. As my daughter once said to me, "Reality bites, just make sure it tastes like chocolate".