I feel like I am in a wierd place with my wife. She seems far more concerned about the prints and colors of what I wear (no pink flowers) than the fact that I am dressing like a woman. I am now living with the fashion police. So far, her only clear boundries seem to be no wigs or make up, and no sex while en femme.
I only came out to my wife six months ago and we've known each other for nearly 10 years, so I fully realize how lucky I am that she is already so accepting. But there is a selfish part of me that is beginning to resent that I can't wear whatever I want whenever I want to - even though I've been closeted my whole life. Now that I've tasted the sweet air of freedom, I crave more. I know I need to check myself and my attitude, but it does make me want to ask all you ladies:
1. What are the boundries that you have established with your SO?
2. Do you resent the boundries?
3. Do you ever try to break them or push them?