Conceptual Questions Raised by another thread:
If you and your SO have boundaries set to keep your relationship stable, why would either of you not have to account for crossing that line? OR Why would you feel you had to account for disrupting your relationships stability?
Why do you see compromise as a "setback" in your relationship?
How does consequence for your SO's hurtful actions turn into spousal abuse?
Why do many see consequence as a child/parent aspect of life?
What if these "rules" you broke were instilled by you? How would you feel? How would you think your SO would feel?
Do you think you should be able to do whatever you want, when ever you want, no matter who it effects, just because you feel it is important to you?
Why do you feel that if you compromise; you are cheating yourself out of something?
I write these questions in an attempt to keep Smiles thread from being hijacked further. We already know the story so hijack this one instead.
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...d.php?t=132621