I am preparing to tell my wife about my crossdressing in the next few months, or as soon as I'm back to earning income (as a consultant) more reliably. I found the sticky thread on “How to Tell Your Partner” really helpful and supportive - thank you Marla GG!. Of all the common questions, the one I am most at loss to answer is “What will others think”” and related to it, ”What will we say to others or do if others find out?” I think our response would depend on the person and situation; though be quite straight with them. However, I’m trying to figure out more to say to reassure my wife than just "it'll depend". Would some of you share with me what reassurances you made with your partners about "if others find out" that were successful? Thank you in advance for sharing!