...some folks, despite being here for years have never shown a picture of themselves en femme in either their avatar or profile. I know some will say they would be recognized or that they have a high profile job or a job in security and cannot take the risk. If someone you know does see you here, how will they explain what they were doing here? The thing is if you cannot share with your "family" here, who can you share with? I sometimes find it hard to take someone seriously if I cannot see who is talking to me, despite words of wisdom. I respect eveyone's right to anonymity but truthfully don't see the need for it in a place like this where the other folks are like family. What do you think?