Dude, I am so freaking happy you're back!
My fault, too, actually... I'm not a big IM-er.I've even added him on messenger (though we don't talk much... probably my fault ><) I'm really looking forward to his reply to this, actually =P
I just returned from my first big move to Boston, so I'm going to carefully read your OP and appropriately respond at a later point. I need to get my bearings in the meantime.