I was just sitting here wondering something and this is the obivious forum to ask it. Now let me preface this by saying that my dh is cd, I love him/her with all my heart and accept her for who she is.
If your partner/wife/so came out to you one day and decided she wanted to dress as a man. You know traditional mens clothes, undies, short hair, mustache, and stuffed pants. Her mannerisms would also change and become more masculine. Now I don't mean for just one occasion but something that is here to stay for better or worse.
What would your reaction be?
Shock, if I'm completely honest.
Your acceptance level?
Hypothetically, I'd like to think that I'd be tolerant and supportive, providing that it was something that would not be 24/7. I don't CD all of the time and I wouldn't want my wife to either.
Could you/would you feel sexual attraction still?
Tricky. Looking at it from a positive point of view, my wife has never wanted anything to do with 'back-door' action, so every cloud could have a silver lining. This is assuming that we were role-playing a M/M relationship.
If we were both dressed, I don't know. I have expressed a desire to play F/F role-play games in bed, which on the whole, my wife has declined. I'd like to go through the whole genre, trying M/F, F/F, M/M and F/M and decide after giving them all a go. I wouldn't knock it until I'd tried it.
Would you give advice on how to be more masculine?
That's a difficult question too, as I generally believe that most 'typical' men act like a*seholes. Being inconsiderate of another persons feelings, showing no decorum in public and farting all day aren't desirable characteristics IMO, be it from a man or woman.
Would you enjoy taking her/him shopping?
I rarely enjoy shopping anyway, unless it's for something that I'm really after. I guess I'm more typically male in this respect.
Would you go out in public with her enmas?
If she wanted me to go out with her whilst she was dressed, I would, provided that we were discreet. I'm not an 'out and about' CDer myself - I don't feel the need to share this with anyone other than my wife (whilst contradicting myself by being on a CD forum). To qualify that statement, I can't be arsed to put up with the potential flak/lifestyle changes that being 'out' could cause my wife, my children or myself.
I only ask because I have done all this with my dh enfemme and just wanted to find out what your feelings on this would be.
Thanks
AngGG