Busker,
You nailed it pretty good with some and a very interesting way of giving it to them with facts of how many hits and where. Keep in mind tho Cding cover a wide spectrume anywhere from getting your rocks off to wearing panties to dressing to the nines.. Wanting to be a female full time or just wishing it would go away..
We are all different and one thing in common, that wearing clothing assigned to the sex we were not born as... We ave Cders who love men and we have Cders who love women just as we have Cders who like being a man not wanting this gift some call Crossdressing...
I can not speak for most but my Cding is not drivin to wanting to be a female it is purley sexual nothing more.. The reasons you speak of is the biggest part of why I would never suggest my wife to join this forum she is already overly suspecious as it is about my sex drive and what I am attracted to male/or female and baseing that over my desire to wear clothing ( sounds odd to read that huh ?) point is I have never gave her a real reason to think that way other than wearing female clothing..
Think what you want about the wide range of Cders in this forum but do not mistake us all as a whole ...