Would you trade places with your SO?
Would you live her life on a day to day basis doing everything she does in the same way, while she lived your life in exactly the same way you live yours?
All can answer including SOs
Would you trade places with your SO?
Would you live her life on a day to day basis doing everything she does in the same way, while she lived your life in exactly the same way you live yours?
All can answer including SOs
Last edited by Deborah Jane; 06-17-2010 at 04:40 PM.
That was one of my fantasies for years. I did tell her about that once and her reaction was "What if I didn't want to trade back?" Of course my thought was, cool. I got this idea reading Jack Chalker's story about the planet "Lilith" (I think that was the book of the 4 that dealt with being able to trade). If you slept next to another person and you both agreed then during the night you could trade bodies. I can't imagine my partner wanting mine.
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No. She works for a hospital in the emergancy room and I don't do well in high stress situations.
I dont think I'm really qualify to answer but I will anyway. It wouldnt be different really, we both do the same thing!!!
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Well sure! I love and honor and respect her so much that I think it would be a treat! I would love to be this woman for a day! Plus, it would give me a chance to let her see life from my perspective. As a crossdresser, I think I have a bit better view of women that most (admittedly clueless) guys, and it would be a wonderful opportunity for her to have the same.
Although I think I would have a lot more fun!
Kathi
I feel there would be no need to trade .. if your in a loving relationship where life is shared and two become one.. where one bounces of the other and you know each other inside out...
some interesting answers in a similiar thread...
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...hlight=trading
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Not a chance. She has to work too hard.
DonnaT
Thanks Sandra...I have lost my copies...or lent them out and they never returned. Funny I didn't think many read those 30 years ago when I worked at the bookstore. You all must have shopped when I wasn't there
The earth is the mother of all people and all people should have equal rights upon it.
Chief Joseph
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“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
Not a chance in hell.
I quite agree Az there were some very interesting answers in there ....... I found Just Wendy's post very interesting and thought provoking ......... thanks for the reminder the thread was there
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...90&postcount=9
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Also it is interesting how many in both threads are saying no way not for a day let alone the day in day out senario Debs is asking about
Now does that not just Describe Debs and Me to a T
Last edited by Sheila; 06-17-2010 at 05:35 PM. Reason: Add
I allow myself to set healthy boundaries ..... to say no to what does not align with my values, to say yes to what does.
Boundaries assist me to remain healthy, honest and living a life that is true to me
Nope.I haven't got the balls for it
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No , not a chance ... She works in a office all day I would go crazy I like being outdoors ..She has accused of wanting switch places before why she would do that is beyond me..
I do not!! Claim to be an expert on any topic, when I post a new thread or reply on any thread my imput is strickly that of a crossdresser. Not to offend Gay people , Transexuals or any other life style, I am only commenting on one of my own.
Things are good the way they are. Why mess with it?
My poor wife has a ton of medical problems, Would I trade her, well
if I did, I do not think she could care for me as I now care for her.
I would do anything for her to be better, in that way I would trade my better
health for hers. But, well it's only a dream. Rader
Yes!
She once asked me, "If there was one person you could be, who would it be?" I said her. She asked me why and I explained that she was my favorite person and I'd love to see what it was like being a woman. She thought it was a great answer and I got a hug!
When she was a college cheerleader, hell yeah.
I would never trade places with anyone. Occasionally I'll see someone and think, "Man, it would be cool to look like that!" But then I think about having to be that person, and I wouldn't want that at all. I wouldn't want to be anyone but myself, so the rest is just window dressing.
I like that answer!Life is good, no need to alter anything.
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no probably not
Donna, I have to agree, I don't want to work that hard, or take on all the responsibility she has.Not a chance. She has to work too hard.
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loooooool made me laughNope, he's a boy ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww
No, not my wife anyway. Too many....issues, I guess you'd call em. Funny thing, I was honest with her about my crossdressing before we got married. But, she was definitely NOT honest with me about her issues. I found out after. I love her, sure, but I would in no way want to BE her.
Crysten
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No way! My SO has too much responsibility on his shoulders. Ex wives, children, step children, a business to run, employees and stress.
Sometimes I think it would be nice to have the complete escapism that crossdressing seems to provide... healthy escapism that doesn't involve alcohol or drugs plus there's a bit of exercise involved what with the squeezing into corsets and tripping up and downstairs to the big mirror!
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