Mykhelee, You go for it! It sounds ideal. I had an SO who I used to go stay with that somewhat matches the description of your dom. We were nuts about eachother. Unfortunatly,she had an illness and died 5 years ago. It's all a little quieter without her yet I'm 54 and I'm glad I joined in the relationship with her while I had time. And who says you can't be 50 or 60 and have a great time.
"Don't lean on me man if you can't afford the ticket,I'm back in suffragette city"