I have read many threads and looked at hundreds of pictures of CDs and I always wonder what and why we are doing this. Nearly all the girls on this site are wonderful and I believe they have their heads on straight. Most dress properly and I believe that they want truly to blend in and move about the female world with ease. And many do especially the women that want to transition. But how about us CDrs who just love dressing up? Make no mistake I have all the wants and desires that the rest of you do and dressing up for me is truly a wonderful and liberating thing and it means allot to me to be able to dress and blend. I also feel like I need to be appropriate and look my best to honor the wonderful women that I enjoy emulating. Here is why I ask the question. Many of us are working hard to turn the public perception of CDrs but there are the few that always seems to destroy our image by dressing inappropriately in public and doing silly things that bring a bad taste to CDrs in general. Now I do understand there is a time and place for everything and I don't have any problems with it. I do feel however that some of us need help with our appearance and acting appropriate while in public. Oh and I have to say that the recent TV special Trantasia was horrible as it portrayed us to the general public as a bunch of catty bitchy bimbos. This site is the best for getting help if you want it. I guess I am speaking to those who put trashy picture on the internet for sexual kicks and to satisfy their need to be an exhibitionist. The biggest compliments I have ever received was being asked to come back to a store anytime and GGs complimenting me on my appearance and wanting to know where I bought my cloths. Girls tell me if I am off base, do we need to help those that are having trouble? Or, do just continue to do the best we can by our selves?