Originally Posted by
Jett
Hold up! You've know her how long! And you've seriously talk to this woman how many hours (2). I don't care whether you think this woman is marriage material or not! Sounds like your career maybe on the line! You gonna tell someone you meet at office party after talking to them for a few hours, I wouldn't. Not happening! Yeah, u can tell right before you get married in a year or so.......but, just dating anyone where you work is bad news, much less letting the cat out of the bag. Especially so soon! You better re-think this, some people are not easy going when it comes to alternate lifestyle. More often than not........it is not! But, then again I live w/ a bunch of rednecks. Oh, its definitely your choice. I see a lot of Pro on here for this decision, so I gonna have to take con side. She'd have to moving in or something with me before we got that far along! Still your choice. But, give it some time........she may split for different reason. Let her tell all the other people about instead! Slow down....It's not something she gotta know immediately. When its time to tell, you won't be asking us. You'll already know. Just my opinion!