The other day my mom revealed an aspect of my history that I had never known before. She said that when I was born, they were so certain that I was going to be a girl that they hadn't picked out any boy names for me. Apparently, I went nameless for four days before they finally settled on a name. I've known all my life that my mom would have liked to have a daughter, but this was new to me. I wonder what made her think she was having a girl? This was before ultrasounds, so perhaps it was an old wives tale or "woman's intuition." Is it possible that she had picked up on my feminine nature, or is it that this expectation led me to develop one (nature vs. nurture)? I wonder, if they we were so certain I was going to be a girl, was my room painted in "girl colors?" Did I wear girls clothes until they had a chance to buy boys clothes for me?
Alas, I didn't ask her these things. In the same day, she accused my dog of being gay for wearing panties...
I suppose that last statement requires some explanation. No, my mom is not senile. My 5 year old daughter had hidden a pair of panties under the couch and claimed they belonged to the dog. This led to my mom's comment. Although it was said jokingly, it plainly told me what she thinks about crossdressing, so I'm not going to start probing my early history and risk getting a "Why are you asking?" replying.
Who else was told they were expecting a girl when you were born? Do you think it had any impact on your development?