Well who knows, maybe this musclehead secretly crossdresses or wants to...we all have an 'X' chromosome, after all...Besides, how do you know that this woman would only be attracted to a "manly" man and not any other type? Not that I haven't thought the same things at times, mind you, but I think it's time to challenge those thoughts...Originally Posted by Joanie_Shakti
Mods, I apologize for multiple posts but I don't know how to merge threads
You don't need to merge threads, lol. That's our job.Mods, I apologize for multiple posts but I don't know how to merge threads
It's perfectly OK to post several times in a thread though. It's just that general forum etiquette dictates that people don't post consecutive posts. So if you have a lot to say at a given time and are quoting one person or several people at once, do it all at once in the same post.
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I’m sure there are women out there willing to accept CD’ing as part of their boyfriend’s life.
Just like there are 4 leaf clovers, solar eclipses, diamonds the size of your fist or sunny days in Scotland, they may exist but are far and few between.
But enough negative thinking, like Patti said “Be optimistic and confident in yourself and anything is possible!”
Which I genuinely do believe might just be the answer.
Yes, there are some of us who would like to be with a guy who CD's. I myself am seeking a CD'er for possible relationship. (Looking at what there is of your photo, I'm guessing you're a young thing and I'm middle aged, so don't worry, I won't hit on you
I agree.. there are GGs out there who appreciate us.. few and far between. I have had luck in dating. Some are OK with it, some don't want to know about it, and some really enjoy it. I have actually have very few which it was a deal breaker. But of course, I'm still single, looking for the one I want who wants me. Just dating a girl because she's OK with dressing IS NOT basis for the foundation of a relationship.
I think earlier advice was right on.... Let the girl come to appreciate/love you as a person... then her acceptance will be much more likely. I met a girl last week that has taken my breath away, and we are planning lunch, but I have no sense of how she would feel about such things. Dating can be fun, but it still sucks. LOL
This is amazing to me. I just assumed it was sort of a world a woman only entered if they had a partner interested.Yes, there are some of us who would like to be with a guy who CD's. I myself am seeking a CD'er for possible relationship. (Looking at what there is of your photo, I'm guessing you're a young thing and I'm middle aged, so don't worry, I won't hit on you
Yes, they're definitely out there.. My GG Jazz is like that (but then again she is bi so...)
definate yes. As many others have attested, you can find a woman (or man) who will accept you as a CDer. I did. In fact, twice. In my first marriage, it was a qualified acceptance - I underdressed often, but never dressed around home, and we included my dressing in our love life. We divorced - unrelated issues- and I was resolved to be open with a potential SO about myself and dressing. I was surprised that the first girl I really trusted to share this information with was so accepting (before and after our marriage). I should note that she admitted being bi-experiened, and to this day often prefers spending time with the girly side of me.
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