Inquiring minds want to know-Week 14

[Di]

Week 14 can you believe it? Thanks to our GG's and the questions they want to ask and thank you everyone joining in and helping. with answers.

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

[AmandaM]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

37. Yes, all the time.
38. Sometimes, even the night before the wedding, I was jealous.
39. Yes, I am submissive to women when I think they will like it. My response to them, etc. is more fulfilling emotionally for me. And hopefully, for them too.

[Rachel Morley]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
No. This scenario is how it would be for me at work. No I don't think about it. I kinda compartmentalize it as work and non work.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
No. She rarely or never goes out without me and if we do go out together, I am almost always en femme too. Unless it's our wedding anniversary or her birthday or something similar, then we go out to dinner as "man and wife" with me in a slightly girly boy mode.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?
Errr ... well, as it turns out, I'm usually underneath during lovemaking. Does that answer your question?

[Kathi Lake]

Although not the same release of my early years, the release that I get when I dress is still strong, fulfilling, and needed. I essentially haven't dressed since early January as most of my, . . . well, I was going to say "girl stuff" but a more accurate term is, "a part of me" is in storage for an impending move. Do I think about it? You know that feeling when you're swimming underwater from end to end of a swimming pool, and you're just about out of air, but you keep on going so you can get to the other side of the pool? Yeah, that's how I feel sometimes - like I'm almost out of air, but pushing onward to the end.

Do I get upset when she dresses up? Not at all! She's gorgeous, feminine, and when she dresses up, she gets this little smile when she looks in the mirror, like the culmination of all of her preadolescent princess fantasies have just come true. I live for that smile, and I certainly don't begrudge her that. That smile tells me that she feels a little bit about herself what I feel for her all the time. Now, if you ask me if I get jealous, then that's another question.

Sure, I'll answer that last question. I'm not exactly a private person, as you may have noticed. Actually, I'll answer it with another question; Just what exactly is the female role in lovemaking? If you mean on the bottom, then I'll say about 50% - it just feels better to me, but I know that psychologically, she likes me being the dominant one, so I gladly accommodate. That, to me, is lovemaking. Mutual trust. Mutual submission. Mutual pleasure.

If you mean, "the receiver" then no.

If you mean, "Do I wear the lingerie" then the answer is no. It's itchy, scratchy, and comes off too quickly as it is. My wife is wonderful, and we really feel no need for props or fantasy. We're fine as is.

Interesting questions. Thanks!

Kathi

[Joanne f]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
In some ways i dress every day but not to the extent that i need to and this is on my mind all the time. Shopping in clothes shops really hits this home and that really effects me.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
Extremely envious is the word i would use

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Some thing that i would not normally talk about on an open forum, (sorry had to edit as something is making me question myself.

[Mirani]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
I used to vary between consumed by the pain of not being able to be "me" and an awareness of not being "complete".

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
I used to get VERY jealous (especially when getting ready) but enjoyed her own enjoyment of "looking good".

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

As I don't present as male any more our relationship dynamic isn't Male/female.

[Renee_E]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes. Sometimes I imagine what I would be wearing if I could dress for that occasion. Some times I just get catty about what the GG's are wearing and how I would make a better selection.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Upset, NO! Jealous, YES

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I prefer to be in a female role and yes I want and have always wanted to be a woman.

[Crysten]

Week 14 can you believe it? Thanks to our GG's and the questions they want to ask and thank you everyone joining in and helping. with answers.

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yup.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Wife never dresses up. N/A

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Preference to be in the female role? Yes. Gay? No.

[TxKimberly]

I should just cut and paste Mirani's responses to the first two as they are perfect!

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing a lot when you are unable to dress?

Only when I'm breathing. In other words - yes.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Upset may be too strong a word. . . then again, the more I look for the right words, the more I think that maybe the answer IS yes. It's hard for me to present as ugly ole Matt in any kind of a dress up outing knowing what I could be looking like.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Wow, not sure just how blunt a response you want or expect with this one. Yes, I do generally wait for my wife to instigate things. Yes, I prefer to be on the bottom. <blush>
No, I do not want to be "on the receiving end" of anything. <blush>

[Jonianne]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes. It's like a sub-programing that is always running, but most of the time in the background.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

I wouldn't say "upset", but sometimes, I may think that it would have been nice to have been able to have went dressed. I might miss it, depending on the occasion.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Yes, and that has negativly affected my intimacy in lovemaking. It's something that takes a lot of effort for me to work out in a relationship.

[SuzanneBender]

37. I only think about it on days that end with y. The average male thinks of sex every 8 seconds. I every 8 seconds and sex every 16. It makes it hard to focus sometimes.
38. I love it when she dresses to the nines. There are times I think wow I love that look and would love to try it myself, but I don't get upset about her looking great.
39. Nope. I have always enjoyed when she takes the lead but I don't consider that playing the femme role. There are certain things I love about being a man and my role in the bedroom is one if them.

[Tina B.]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
Not that often that I don't get to dress anymore, but yes, when I couldn't dress, it could become all consuming.
38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
[COLOR="purple"]Never, I love to see her dressed up, and feeling good about herself.[/COLOR
39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Need, no I won't say need, but yes I do prefer the more submissive role in love making, and luckily my wife likes the more dominate role
Tina B.

[AKAMichelle]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Not really since I can dress all the time anyway.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No - I am a mix and a good portion of those times I love to be the guy. The guy who holds the door for you. The guy who pulls the chair out for you to sit down in. It is almost like role playing. When I want to be the guy, I will wear the guy clothes. When I want to be the girl, I will wear girl clothes.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

NEVER. I always want to be the guy to enjoy the female.

[Karen__Starr]

37 No as I am for the most part dressed all the time even in male mode.
38. Not upset but jealous
39. Absolutely, always as a dominate female, never as a male. With men it depends on the man but always with men as a female.

[TGMarla]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes. I think about it nearly every day, whether I am able to dress or not. Of course, I like it better when I'm able to.


38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No. There may be some pangs of envy about it, but it is a privilege to escort my wife anywhere we go together. And I'm quite glad to be her man, especially in a situation like that.


39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I'm not gay, and whereas I'd like to be a woman, that is not my path. The option to be in the female role while lovemaking has never come up, nor is it likely to. So I'll give this one a big ol' "NA".

[Rebecca W.]

#37- Since I was thirteen, the thoughts about dressing daily as a woman only get stronger and they never fade. The only problem is that the dresses get more expensive. LOL

[JulieK1980]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

I don't really have that issue. I dress whenever I feel the need.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Not at all.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I'm Bi so I guess it just depends. Not a preference though, just depends on who I'm with.....

[BRANDYJ]

Some really good questions from our GG's

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Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
Sometimes I do. But not often. Sometimes things or my partner have to take priorities and dressing becomes a mute point and it does nto bother me in the least.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Hell no. I like my SO dressed up and me in drab mode and proud to be her male partner.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I like the opportunity to be in fem mode when making love with my partner, but that decision has to be hers and not mine. It happens often enough to make me happy and I never worry about it. It is never an issue. I simply like making love and pleasing her in either mode.

[mklinden2010]

Week 14 can you believe it? Thanks to our GG's and the questions they want to ask and thank you everyone joining in and helping. with answers.

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

No. Then again, my life is set up to do what I want, when I want, so the words "unable to" may not apply.


38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No. If we're set for an "outing" (odd choice of words) and I Have to be in guy mode, then so be it.

There's nothing that pouting and whining can't make worse, so I just don't bother with those.



39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

No, for two reasons.

First, lovemaking is also about saying kind words, doing the chores on time, and, listening to their cares and concerns - too.

Second, when it comes to sex, there are NO clothes involved because there's nothing like a good fitting birthday suit for a great party.

[minalost]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

I think about CDing all the time.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Nope. My wife doesn't dress up much, but I love it when she does!

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Now for the hard question: My wife does NOT want me in fem mode "in the bedroom." I'm not sure I would want to make love while enfemme anyway... not that I haven't thought about it, but the wig, and everything else would just get in the way (I think...). On top or bottom? Both, depending on mood.

[PretzelGirl]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

It depends. Two things can put me where I am thinking about it a lot. One is the old idle mind syndrom. If I am busy with work, my family, or something I enjoy doing, then dressing isn't consuming my mind. The other instance is if I haven't dressed for a while. Then the thoughts about it go up.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No, not upset. If she is getting dressed up, then we are heading to do something fun (I am not forced to any work dress up events). Jealous. Sure. Jealous of her dressing up. Jealous of her beauty.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I will pass. Promised my self that I wouldn't talk about our sex life here long ago. Some things are suppose to stay private to me.

[Sarah Doepner]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

It depends. When I'm busy or my things are unavailable, it tends to stay well back in my mind for the most part. It only entered my mind a couple of times while I was camping or staying with relatives, but daily when I got back home.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

She doesn't get dressed up very often and when that happens I'm happy to be her male companion. I'll get my chance to dress later.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

When my wife accepted my crossdressing one of the ground rules was she would remain the only woman in our bed. I have no problem with that.

[linnea]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing a lot when you are unable to dress? Yes but not in a very strong way: I have learned to be patient about this and wait without fretting. Some day I won't have to wait at all.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode? I don't get upset but I let myself process a little wishful thinking. Again, over the many years that I have been a crossdresser, I have learned to be patient and to appreciate deferred pleasures.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?
I think about it and fantasize at times, but I don't need it.

[CallMeMeg]

Yes, yes, and no.

[kayegirl]

Week 14 can you believe it? Thanks to our GG's and the questions they want to ask and thank you everyone joining in and helping. with answers.

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes all of the time.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

I'll know the answer to this one next week. I have to attend a formal do, full dinner suit etc. My GG friend and the rest of the ladies present will be in their best gowns etc. Don't think that I will be upset so much as jealous as hell.


39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Yes, No, well sometimes perhaps, I don't know it's different every time isn't it?

Sorry the answers to the first two questions are hidden in the quote box, havent got the hang of quoting part of a thread yet.