Hi everyone.
Has anyone here kept a diary?
I must confess to being very lazy where this is concerned but for a short time I did get into the habit whilst I was suffering from depression. I won’t go into that here as many of us suffer the same malady.
What I did find useful for my wife was that I wrote my true feelings down when I was down and the reasons I felt upset. The diary was always available to her to read so that she could maybe keep up with my mood swings.
This also had an effect which I did not see coming.
In my diary I wrote on three separate occasions about my desire to wear a soft satin nightdress. The last time I wrote a reason for why I thought this should be ok.
(Now this was very shallow of me but, please understand it was during a depressive moment.)
I reasoned that if it was ok for her to wear pyjamas then it should be ok for me to wear a nightgown. After all wasn’t she cross-dressing?
The side effect of this was that nothing was ever mentioned but she has since stopped wearing pyjamas. In due course we will have another little chat and I shall bring this up so that she can go back to the pyjamas.
PJ