Not sure if this is the perfect place to post this.
My wife of 17 years and I are separating. It's not because of my cding. Long and short of it is a communication issue that left me looking like I didn't value her opinion and so we now have trust issues. Well 3.5 years after the issue marriage is no better off. I'm moving out for a few months so that we can figure out who we are, start all over again, and renew our marriage. I especially want to do this since we have 5 kids!
Anyway to my point. I'm finding my self now constantly thinking about the Monica time that I'll have. I feel somewhat guilty, but my wife and I have been together since we got out of high school...I've never lived alone. I'm renting a room but still I can sleep in a nightgown and be on the computer with whatever I want on.
Should I feel guilty. I know why I'm separating and so I want to stay focused on my marriage, but since she doesn't agree with me cding it's like also a time for me to be me. Does that make any sense???