I don’t go out dressed because I’m concerned that I don’t present well or just can’t pass because of my stature (I’m 6’2) and deep voice. I do however dress at home nearly every evening after work and underdress everyday in panties.
Occasionally on weekends my undersressing will include a bra or bralette. I do try to choose a top that won’t show bra straps through and often have changed tops before going out because I felt that a bra strap might be showing.
There are a couple of restaurants near by where I am a regular. I have underdressed with bra and panties in both of these establishments. Long ago in one and more recently in the other one of the waitresses or hostess will walk behind me and rub or pat me on the back or shoulder. Most recently I was wearing a bra when the waitress came by and rubbed my back, above the band and between the straps (so she didn’t feel the bra).
This has me wondering. Even though I take care to not allow the bra to show through do some still spot it?
Are they checking to see if they can feel a bra strap? I don’t think it’s the case with the most recent back rub as it was above the band and between the straps.
What would they do if they did feel a bra strap? Would they say something to me personally, announce “he’s wearing a bra” or …?