I was just looking at the Wiki article concerning crossdressing, just to see what was said on this amature site. I came across this statement from a psychologist, that kinda ruffled my feathers.
"Some psychoanalysts today do not regard cross-dressing by itself a psychological problem, unless it interferes with the functioning of a person's life. "For instance," said Dr. Joseph Merlino, Senior Editor of the book Freud at 150: 21st Century Essays on a Man of Genius, "[suppose that]...I'm a cross-dresser and I don't want to keep it confined to my circle of friends, or my party circle, and I want to take that to my wife and I don't understand why she doesn't accept it, or I take it to my office and I don't understand why they don't accept it, then it's become a problem because it's interfering with my relationships and environment."[11]"
So if I read this right, it is fine if I hide what I do, but it becomes a psychological problem if I want to stop hiding, and exercise the rights that for some reason are restricted by society. That if I want to defeat the bigotry with powers in numbers. I don't get that kind of logic.
So essentially in the psychological stance it is better to hide and be kind to bigot's points of view.
I do think this wiki article is sorely missing the point.