First off, some background. Widowed three years, boy 20, daughter 18. Wife knew, didn't approve, but did tolerate it in that it always was a destresser for me. If I dressed it was when the kids were in school and always at home. Exception was for Halloween.
Since her death, I have been out and do have a stash of my clothes mixed with my wife's since they are mostly about the same size. The excuse I have given the kids is that some of my wifes stuff that I haven't donated out fits my Daughter also. Of course she has picked off some of my purchases also.
A few weeks ago we gave blood and afterwards she wanted a pedi and offered to pay for mine also. I'm wondering if she has an idea. I think she knows, but for some reason they are the hardest ones to tell. I know they're real good kids.
Now the question is. By September they will both be off to college out of state. Do I bother coming clean or just let it stay unspoken.