my wife has known for 20+ yrs about my crossdressing - since before we were married. It has been a rocky course, as she is 100% unaccepting. Our relationship has been marred by my dishonesty, as i have actively concealed my incresing involvement in this "lifestyle" The fact is, though, that i am comfortable in my knowledge that i am TS, not simply a cd-er (as if that is simple). At any rate, I have been more open with her in the last 6 months, per her request. As I am attending SCC, i knew i had to tell her in advaance. I did so last night. She took it very hard, as another sign that things are escalating. In resonse, she is going home to her parents for the weekend to think things over. At some level, tthis may be the best for the both of us. as undoubtedly more heartbreak awaits her in our relationship......
Life can be difficult. . ..