Last night I went to Fort Collins to a dance with a dear friend of mine. As we were walking through the college students, Kayla made an odd statement which got me thinking. She said that she was being read because she was with a cd'er. She was ok with this, but being TS she is always afraid of somebody attacking her because of it. She is a girl in my book. I couldn't see a guy anywhere when we first met 2 years ago. Last night I saw so many changes in her that I couldn't believe it. She was one really cute blond chick. But her statement made me a little sad because I couldn't pass anywhere near her level. So yes I caused her to be noticed more because she was there with me.
When we go out, do we somehow have a judgement process of other cd'ers to determine their passability. Depending upon that evaluation do we decide if we ever go out with them again? Is that why we go to only TG friendly places because we would stick out like a sore thumb in a regular establishment?
I have avoided going out again with other cd'ers if they wore too skimpy of clothes and didn't really try to hide the fact that they were a cd'er. I attract enough attention but I don't want to be out with someone who attracts attention at 1000 yards when I only do 100 yards.