Ok, this is in response to a GREAT post by another member.
Note I am female (sort f2m) with a longtime male cd friend
who begged me to accompany him out dressed for a long time.
I refused because he did not know how to pass ...it is done quietly.
See ... if he showed-up a Wal-MArt wearing 7" stillettos and fishnets, a rhinestone mini dress and a Vegas showgirl wig and DDD boobs...
... he'd kinda attract attention ... people would look CLOSELY at her/him ... and then they'd KNOW ... so he needed to BLEND IN to avoid that.
PS. Black turtleneck shirts with SMALL boobs are your friend. They cover the apple.
We used a SOFT b-cup bra with two latex gloves 3/4 -filled with water for very realistic boobs!