One thing I have found interesting as I started to get out around Utah and also come out to a few people was that I would hear comments like "I can't get out in Utah because they are so conservative." and "Where do you find accepting people in Utah?".
So this set me to observe some of the comments here. We have people who say that they are in the Catholic northeast and it isn't a good area to get out in. Well, I know we see Sally, Caroline, Angel Marie and others getting out there. What about those that are in the deep south with the southern Baptists? Without even mentioning SCC being in Atlanta (okay, I mentioned it), with have the likes of Diedre, ChristineK, GaGirl, and many more out there. Conservative Texas with their cowboys? Mid east with their rednecks (not too big on the term, but since that is what gets used). Loads of ladies getting out in all of these places.
So is there really a problem getting out based on being in a certain region? Are we building a bogeyman that starts big and gets in our way of doing what we want to do? To me, it comes down to human nature being what it is no matter where you live. I don't think it matters if a person is one religion or another, or from one cut of society or another. I think that the way people will react to us is fairly consistent from location to location.
Now this is not meant to be a push out for anyone. But if your only reason for not going out is because your area is sooooo conservative, I just want to ask if it really is or is it just a perception that becomes a barrier that you really don't need influencing you? I am here to tell you that after having been out with Kathi Lake once, I saw the amazing acceptance out there. And that set me going out on my own without a concern about it being Utah. Are there some knowing smirks and second glances? Sure. Tell me where you won't get that. But being in the supposed bastion of conservatism, I haven't been told I was wrong, I haven't been frowned at, and I haven't been heckled. So where are all the people that are suppose to keep me from going out?