Ze: I wonder if you have ever reacted in an aggressive way to the invaders of your male space. If a male is addressed in the manner you describe, he will react. I don't mean hit someone (although I can imagine that some would "take it outside" over something like that) but actually asking your professor if he's got problems with his pronouns. Or people on this site. Most of us dainty MtF flowers would be very hurt if this happened to us. There is no hurt but actually aggression on your agenda. I am not saying men in general including transmen don't get frustrated, but you're goddamn right you're not a goddamn female. So man up and tell 'em.
Love you man
Kathryn
